Why do I become so mean in relationships?

I’m actually a really nice person. I hate fighting with anyone and I genuinely feel guilty if I say or do anything that would hurt a friend’s feelings. Relationships, I’ve noticed however bring out a dark, pushy side of me. I’ve just entered something relatively new with someone and I’m already starting to notice the more comfortable I get the meaner I become.

I’m trying to take steps back so I can stop this behavior from coming out. I’m just not sure what this stems from...

Submitted November 22, 2019 at 12:08AM

I’m actually a really nice person. I hate fighting with anyone and I genuinely feel guilty if I say or do anything that would hurt a friend’s feelings. Relationships, I’ve noticed however bring out a dark, pushy side of me. I’ve just entered something relatively new with someone and I’m already starting to notice the more comfortable I get the meaner I become.I’m trying to take steps back so I can stop this behavior from coming out. I’m just not sure what this stems from...