I [35f] just found call girl texts my husband [42m] was sending while out of town on work trips. Now we’re at the hospital with his broken arm.

I can’t make this shit up. I found texts on his Apple Watch saying “I’m traveling. Email or text me”.... (maybe has another phone?) and “are you available for the half hour, email or text me”. Seems to me like they’re regulars. I confronted him and he admitted that he’s been sending those texts to “massage girls” but supposedly never ever went through with it, I call bullshit. Those texts were from 3 different weeks while he was in 3 different states.

I slapped him, screamed, literally freaked out. I couldn’t stop crying. He eventually began to cry and punched the wall. He broke his fucking arm. I go from devastated wife to suddenly being the caretaker for his arm driving 100 mph down the freeway to get him to the hospital.

I am absolutely devastated. I did not expect this. If I divorce him, it will be my second divorce. I thought I could trust him. He travels for business all the time, all my red flags make sense now. I had a five year old son and now I feel like I’m in a crisis. I had my mom pick up my son.... and now I’m sitting inside the fucking hospital, taking care of a man who has been cheating on me.

I’ve ALWAYS been a sexually giving wife. I’ve gone above and beyond. I’ve been emotionally there for him, I’ve supported his career. I felt like I was a good partner. I always trusted him.

I’m sorry I’m all over the place but I don’t know what to do. I’m a former single mom, I’ve been married to him now for 2 years. I am in college and an intern trying to get my career after already having a divorce. How does life go from amazing to horrific this quick? I have nowhere to go. No money of my own. No job. I cannot believe this. :-( idk what to feel because now I’m wanting to take care of him because I love this man but GOD DAMNIT he’s been cheating on me.

Thanks for listening.

TLDR; my husband of two years has been texting call girls cheating on me. He punched the wall and now I’m sitting at the hospital with him because he broke his arm.



Submitted September 03, 2019 at 12:08AM

I can’t make this shit up. I found texts on his Apple Watch saying “I’m traveling. Email or text me”.... (maybe has another phone?) and “are you available for the half hour, email or text me”. Seems to me like they’re regulars. I confronted him and he admitted that he’s been sending those texts to “massage girls” but supposedly never ever went through with it, I call bullshit. Those texts were from 3 different weeks while he was in 3 different states.I slapped him, screamed, literally freaked out. I couldn’t stop crying. He eventually began to cry and punched the wall. He broke his fucking arm. I go from devastated wife to suddenly being the caretaker for his arm driving 100 mph down the freeway to get him to the hospital.I am absolutely devastated. I did not expect this. If I divorce him, it will be my second divorce. I thought I could trust him. He travels for business all the time, all my red flags make sense now. I had a five year old son and now I feel like I’m in a crisis. I had my mom pick up my son.... and now I’m sitting inside the fucking hospital, taking care of a man who has been cheating on me.I’ve ALWAYS been a sexually giving wife. I’ve gone above and beyond. I’ve been emotionally there for him, I’ve supported his career. I felt like I was a good partner. I always trusted him.I’m sorry I’m all over the place but I don’t know what to do. I’m a former single mom, I’ve been married to him now for 2 years. I am in college and an intern trying to get my career after already having a divorce. How does life go from amazing to horrific this quick? I have nowhere to go. No money of my own. No job. I cannot believe this. :-( idk what to feel because now I’m wanting to take care of him because I love this man but GOD DAMNIT he’s been cheating on me.Thanks for listening.TLDR; my husband of two years has been texting call girls cheating on me. He punched the wall and now I’m sitting at the hospital with him because he broke his arm.
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