I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years. We have broken up once mostly due lack of communication and lack of trust. This was in 2017. Even since forever i've been a major pervert. I have a hard time controlling my eyes. Like if i'm alone waiting in line and there is a nice ass infront. I just wanna stare even though i don't i'll definately peak but not stare. Also boobs, if your wearing anything that shows them off i wanna stare. It's like it's build into me. It's too much., I get sex 2-3 times a week. My girlfriend is in decent shape. Maybe little overweight 198 pounds at 5'3? So she is a bigger girl. I'm in good shape however. My girlfriend hasn't caught me looking yet. But i know one day she might. Today she was working and i was at store and in line was a brunette infront in leggings and i was dying to stare. It was just so nice. I think if i keep going like this i'll cause a danger to myself. Cheating, staring or overall to much pe...

Hi, using a throwaway. I've been wanting to lose a few pounds and my boyfriend is against this, he says that he thinks I want to cheat on him and "impress other men" because I want to lose weight. I told him it's for my own satisfaction because I don't feel pleased with my body right now and he just acts passive aggressive with me for that. I'm unable to diet because I worry that it's going to make him accuse me of wanting to impress other men again. What should I do? Please help me. Thank you in advance ​ tl;dr My S/O accuses me of wanting to cheat because I wish to lose some weight. How do I deal with this? Submitted April 25, 2020 at 11:26PM Hi, using a throwaway.I've been wanting to lose a few pounds and my boyfriend is against this, he says that he thinks I want to cheat on him and "impress other men" because I want to lose weight. I told him it's for my own satisfaction because I don't feel pleased with my body right n...

am Hella confused SO i met a girl online in a platform we lot of people chat in a room by text or voice we don't see eachothers pics, i met the girl there and she attracted me by her pesonalities and her age ( since she was older than me and i'm into older than me girls and she's into younger boys) and her interests too so i talked to her and we called liked eachothers exchanged pics and started dating it was so fast, then we started loving eachother and the fire was lit between us, the thing is when i saw her she wasn't exactly my type doesnt mean she wasnt pretty just not my type but has a nice body but i already liked her before seeing her cuz i believed i cared more about personality so i didnt care and i felt like i forced love and liking on my self ( that was my biggest mistake) soo we started loving and talking all day and night every day it was 2 months and a half everyday whole day then after i started feeling weir because when u force something into ur sel...

I was seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. He asked me out to dinner after casually chatting for a few weeks. After that first dinner we started to see each other 2x a week for the next 6 weeks. These meetups mostly included going out to dinner & sometimes ordering in while watching a movie. He was always a gentleman, thoughtful, kind, did nice little sweet things for me (picking up my favorite candy to surprise me with, ordering me my fav. desert, keeping the car warm for me before picking me up) & treated me kindly. We did not get physically intimate until a month in although most of our dates ended up with me sleeping over at his place & him driving me home at 4am so I can make it to work the next day. After a few weeks, I noticed he’s not the biggest texter ( isn’t this always the issue) We would text in between our dates but probably not as often as I had wanted. I had a chat with him about it & he assured me he just isn’t the biggest texter & that “ you know,...

I have known her for not too long but she is a good friend of my sister’s. She is a bit older, but it’s not that bad of an age gap either. I started hanging our with her and getting to know her a lot and I have a crush on her. I like her personality, hiw good of a person she is, she is also a very good looking person, and she has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen in my life. Well she came over to hang out with my sister and since she had some drinks, she ended staying over because she didn’t want to drive back home like that. She and I hooked up when she stayed over and I loved it. We started talking more and more and she found out that I am 17 still through my sister. Now I just saw her again when she came over and she asked me why I didn’t tell her I wasn’t 18 yet and she seemed kinda upset. I apologized and she said it was fine, but I can tell she is still upset and I feel bad. I like her a ton and I feel like I messed up. She doesn’t text me as much as she would before an...

My parents are very restricting and don’t want me to live my own life and make my own choices. I told my parents that my friend and I have made plans to get an apartment in January, and my mom bugged out and started screaming at me saying that I wasn’t moving out. She has a lot of mental health issues and is very nosy/overbearing. She is verbally abusive towards me and pretty much wants me to live at home forever. She always says that she wishes that I was a child again because that’s the version of me that she misses. My father on the other hand treats me like I’m some kind of lazy dumbass. I told him yesterday that I bought a skateboard online so I could pick up a new skill, and he said “are you f*cking stupid? you better return that before it gets here because that’s an accident waiting to happen.” I feel as if my parents want me to grow up to be the most boring and miserable f*cking individual alive. They are both miserable in their marriage and are always cussing each other ou...

P.S: Sorry for my bad English as it’s not my first language. I was born and raised in a pretty moderate muslim family. However things started to change when I was 15, when I slowly came to know more about Islam. It made realise how wrong and false it was! I couldn't get myself to follow it any more, because my inner belief just sorta disappeared. However, I kept these all to myself. All until this year, I was finally fed up and decided to confront my parents about this. I tried to subtly throw clues at them. I didn't have the courage of saying it up to their face. But they had already suspected me for quite a while because I don't pray, I don't want to fast. So, when I tried to bring up the conversation with why god miiight not exist, he for a minute put on a smile and laughed it all off, making me think he was very much ok with my thoughts and supports my opinions. So, me being the fool I am, confessed to him right away how I don’t think any sorts of religion is not...