Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months and we're both admittedly still in the honeymoon phase. We're crazy for each other right now and she's all that's on my mind right now. That said, I think she is starting to have in effect on my job. I work physical labor at a construction site and there are times when I'm not focused on my work because I'm thinking of my girlfriend. I admit to not being on my A-game at work lately, but it recently reached a point where my boss actually contacted my parents and told them about my poor performance and how they should do what they can to get me back on track. I was extra pissed off that my boss would actually do something like that, as if he were a fucking school teacher and that's lead to the conflict. My parents talked things over and they know that I'm head-over-heels for my girlfriend right now. My dad ultimately came up to me and decided that my girlfriend is banned from coming over to our hou...

I was gonna post this in r/AITA but I see they have a 'no relationship' related post so I was hoping I would be accepted here. I don't wanna write the whole thing again so I will kind of post it in the same format. ​ TL;DR Let me make the scene as simple as possible: Girl (my coworker, actually) already has boyfriend for 6 year. I like this girl. We're on friendly terms. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend. She not broken up with the previous boyfriend. Big dilemma. ​ When we first went to grab lunch together during our lunch break we had a nice chance to have an uninterrupted introductory talk. We got around to talking about our relationships. She said she has a boyfriend from high school. She's never really been out of a relationship. The current one lasted 6 years. He asked her out and she's stuck around since, but according to her she tells him every now and then that she wants to break up. I told her personality-wise I was the opposite. Never been i...

I’m 23 and so is she, we haven’t spoken in around 2 months. I made the effort on a couple of occasions I’ve just returned from my holiday and I was wondering if it’s worth reaching out or not Previously we had a disagreement last summer she text saying I wasn’t an attentive mate and I didn’t really do much in the way of replying, which at that time was pretty difficult considering the situations I was going through I then explained my dad was involved in an accident and I went into depression. We met up spoke about stuff I thought it was fine, but I’m at a point where I really do not know where I stand now as we haven’t spoke in 2 months Anyone have any advice on whether it’s worth reaching out here? She hasn’t really made any effort to text me at all, and a part of me feels like it takes 2 to try to make a convo TLDR; in a confusing place about what to do Submitted July 12, 2019 at 10:07PM I’m 23 and so is she, we haven’t spoken in around 2 months. I made the effort on a cou...

TL;DR at bottom Mobile apologies I (33M) recently found out from friends of a girl(28) I had been with for 9 months or so that she had been cheating for quite some time during the relationship. Our kids had a great relationship with each other, I treated her daughter(7) as my own. I tried to help as much as possible when my gf got sick (genetic clotting?) Me and my kids showed up unannounced to bring her some get well stuff and she answered the door in a panic and her daughter attempted to come outside and was hurriedly shoved back towards her room. That night stood out and she claimed she had some weed out and didnt want the kids to see. Her friends let me know it was actually a guy in house with her and her daughter. My kids were confused by her muttering and the door being closed in our face. She still came around a lot and apologized to my kids, and always was so nice to them. Eventually I felt something was wrong and she didn't want to date anymore but she was adamant we ...

I fucked yesterday with my friend. We did something in my new house I was told not to do and I hurt my back. We're idiots I know we are. Theres no medical bill because the government takes care of it and my back isn't broken but it's very sore. My mom and my step mom were both furious at me and my friend. They told my friend to go home and yelled at me on the way home from the hospital. My step mom told me that I have no idea how badly I scared them both initilly. TL;DR: It's morning and how do I make things right when wake up because they're super pissed. Submitted July 12, 2019 at 10:11PM I fucked yesterday with my friend. We did something in my new house I was told not to do and I hurt my back. We're idiots I know we are. Theres no medical bill because the government takes care of it and my back isn't broken but it's very sore. My mom and my step mom were both furious at me and my friend. They told my friend to go home and yelled at me on the ...

I have a pretty cushy job in tech research &prototyping, I'll be the first to admit that. I work 35 hours a week, no more, and have total freedom to set my hours, as long as I am there for my meetings, and get my work done. I get full-time benefits and healthcare despite that. I get paid well too. I've paid off my student loans and have set aside a pretty good amount of money to start my retirement fund. And I've got enough income on top of that to have some fun too. I enjoy the work I do, it's really interesting and cutting edge. And I get along well with my coworkers, we go out bar hopping once or twice a month. My boss is great, he's really supportive of everyone's personal development, and helping everyone who works for him get involved in projects that fit their interests and help them develop skills they want to learn. Despite all that, it's still a job, it takes work and commitment and motivation. I don't see myself as a slacker. I worked...

hi throwaway because well...anxiety. I have a friend i met last semester and i've invited him to hang out a few times, but he keeps saying that he's busy and fair enough. I brush it off and we just keep talking like normal. But im not gonna lie, it's getting super discouraging because I really like this guy. I know that he's really socially awkward so i'm thinking that's part of him saying no, as well as the busy stuff but like... i still don't know what to do? I don't wanna push any boundaries. Part of me wants to invite him one last time and see if he accepts or says he's busy again... if he doesn't I'm considering asking him if he like wants me to just stop asking or if i'm bothering him and he just doesn't want to hang out, which i know is the most probable answer... tl;dr I wanna hang out with my friend but i'm anxious because he never accepts my invites because he's busy and i dunno how I should go about this. Su...