This topic has been an issue between my husband (30 M) and I (26 F) since we’ve been married. Prior to getting married, we both had close friends of the opposite sex. Nothing inappropriate was ever said or done and infidelity was never an issue. However, we both became a little jealous about our outside friendships and would occasionally argue about them. I could see this becoming a consistent problem so I eventually stopped talking to my guy friends. He still occasionally talks to his female friends. I personally feel like I got the short end of the stick here, considering I had never, in the 15 years I knew my guy friends, had feelings for them (granted they developed crushes on me at various times). I gave up those relationships regardless because I didn’t want to do anything that made my husband uncomfortable. The same can’t be said for him because I know he’s had crushes on all his female friends years ago and I feel like that’s inappropriate to continue these relationships es...

33(M), Indian , unmarried. Never had a relationship. Never actually thought of getting into one. Still not serious and has fear of commitment and trust issues. What should i do? Submitted June 03, 2019 at 07:25PM 33(M), Indian , unmarried. Never had a relationship. Never actually thought of getting into one. Still not serious and has fear of commitment and trust issues. What should i do?

So my wife and I are sending emails back and forth to a lender for refinance. I addressed my wife in the email by her first name while responding to the lender. My wife proceeds to text me that I'm so disconnected from her by not saying "my wife will respond" vs "janedoe will respond". She blows my phone up with text that I'm cold and I don't have it in me to naturally give her her place? What the hell? I'm so use to responding formally on emails I did it without thinking? This can't be normal behavior. Any input to how to approach this? Submitted June 03, 2019 at 08:52PM So my wife and I are sending emails back and forth to a lender for refinance. I addressed my wife in the email by her first name while responding to the lender. My wife proceeds to text me that I'm so disconnected from her by not saying "my wife will respond" vs "janedoe will respond". She blows my phone up with text that I'm cold and I don...

This might not fall under this sub, but I’m going to give it a whirl anyways. So my whole marriage and during our relationship, my wife and my mother never were on the same page. No fights or anything happened at all so it’s not terrible, but it all kind of reared its ugly head when my Sister ran away from my mother’s house and lived with us for about ¾ of the year. Got my sister her driver’s license, a job, and now she’s going to college in the span of that time. So she’s moved out. During that time though it didn’t make my wife any happier knowing that we were taking care of my mother’s responsibility. Fast forward a bit to this year, we find out that we are expecting!! Mom and sister are doing a little bit better since half a year has passed which is good. My wife tells me that things are never going to get better between my mother and her even though everyone is kind of moving on and then also made the point that my mom doesn’t even reach out to ask how she is doing….so…I told my...

I got married a few months ago and I don’t think I want to be married anymore. Before anyone goes after me I want to state that I didn’t take marriage lightly and I wasn’t in a rush to tie the knot. I was with my husband for almost 5 years when we got married. The reason I am considering leaving is because of our families. His family ruined our wedding. They completely disrespected my parents and my family members. His nephew got wasted early and started a huge brawl at our reception. He was drunkenly harassing my sister all night saying inappropriate things to her. He was was harassing the maid of honors boyfriend and starting fights with him all night that several people had to break up. The worst that happened was the nephews mom then got involved and attacked my the MOH and her boyfriend on the dance floor. Her son and his cousins then jumped the moh and her boyfriend on the dance floor. They knocked over my 83 year old grand father. We still had a few hours left and I hadn’t even...

Hi everyone, I apologize for the long post. TLDR at the end. My husband and I have been married for just about 4 months. A couple weeks before we got married he accepted a position which required us to move. We moved to our previous location because of a job I took, so it's only fair that we move on when he has an opportunity. Luckily my work has allowed me to work remotely. His job provides optional housing (on-site, he does farm related work). The house is a four bedroom, 1970s mobile home that isn't in the greatest shape. However, we don't have to pay for anything, so it's great. We don't pay rent, electricity, refuse, internet, and his employer is even letting us buy gas for our vehicles with the company credit card (this place is a ways out of town). This is a great opportunity for us to save money while he gets good work experience in his field. We had an argument the other day about money. We each have our own personal checking & savings account, but ...

I apologize in advance if this does not belong here really just trying to get advice for senior married people and I will try to keep this as short as I can So my wife (27 f) and I (m 25) have been married for a little over a year we have 2 kids and a dog and a cat so perfect little family so forth I have lost interest in having sex altogether I completely find my wife attractive and love her very much but my drive is simply not there. I time and again tell her it is not an issue on her part but she gets frustrated very easily and its something we get into an argument over as of recently I'm sure I should be talking this out but to be fair I have issues expressing my self and emotions to begin with to point where I dint say anything at all which frustrates her more. we are currently at the point where she has lost all hope of ever having any intimacy and has stated that she will be steering clear of me altogether and that I am unfamiliar to her . so as someone who has issues w...