what does attachment lead too?

My gf and i have had a “different” relationship so far, this is my first relationship which is why i need help. She also has lower experience too and i can tell we both grew up with trauma. people tell me we are co- dependant which scares me but at first she was the only one acting that way. recently i can’t tell if i love her or getting too attached. i went from barely wanting to hang out to doing everything together. every time i leave her place tho i instantly get anxious that it’s the last time imma see her. this feeling switches between us; one of us only focusing on the other instead of personal life.



Submitted February 04, 2023 at 01:15AM

My gf and i have had a “different” relationship so far, this is my first relationship which is why i need help. She also has lower experience too and i can tell we both grew up with trauma. people tell me we are co- dependant which scares me but at first she was the only one acting that way. recently i can’t tell if i love her or getting too attached. i went from barely wanting to hang out to doing everything together. every time i leave her place tho i instantly get anxious that it’s the last time imma see her. this feeling switches between us; one of us only focusing on the other instead of personal life.

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