Girl I was talking to lied about me to my friend and I keep seeing her around

Was talking to this girl I met at school a couple months ago. She originally approached me, we went on a date, hung out at the bars, held hands, hugged, was going well. Eventually summer came and she started giving mixed signals (flakey, hot & cold). We stopped talking for a month before she eventually came back and gave a reason for her behavior which was sketchy but valid. She became super flirty and said she always saw us potentially dating and we were going to hangout before she bailed and I caught her in a lie and told her that I knew something was up. We haven’t talked since this and it’s been 2 months.

My friend who knows one of her friends saw her at a bar recently and asked her about me and she told him lies about me (that I was clingy, I couldn’t take hints, that she told me she had a bf and that I said I’d wait on her). All lies. Then of course I see her at a party a few days later. We made eye contact and I said hi but she said nothing. She was also trying to hit on my friend the whole night. How do I handle this? Do I just leave it be and let her live with her version of the story? Don’t really like the idea of her lying about me to people.

Submitted September 14, 2022 at 12:15AM

Was talking to this girl I met at school a couple months ago. She originally approached me, we went on a date, hung out at the bars, held hands, hugged, was going well. Eventually summer came and she started giving mixed signals (flakey, hot & cold). We stopped talking for a month before she eventually came back and gave a reason for her behavior which was sketchy but valid. She became super flirty and said she always saw us potentially dating and we were going to hangout before she bailed and I caught her in a lie and told her that I knew something was up. We haven’t talked since this and it’s been 2 months.My friend who knows one of her friends saw her at a bar recently and asked her about me and she told him lies about me (that I was clingy, I couldn’t take hints, that she told me she had a bf and that I said I’d wait on her). All lies. Then of course I see her at a party a few days later. We made eye contact and I said hi but she said nothing. She was also trying to hit on my friend the whole night. How do I handle this? Do I just leave it be and let her live with her version of the story? Don’t really like the idea of her lying about me to people.