I’ve been going out with a girl for about 6 months and I don't know what we are (HELP)

I met her at my high school prom which was on December 17th, 2021(I never got to see her before that (covid)). My drunken self asked for her number and we started messaging and calling each other rather constantly, now its been almost 3 months that It is daily. We've gone out to walk and drink coffee at local parks and stuff, went to some shopping centres and even ice skating (last Friday; we held hands haha). In these dates we walk and talk from normal things to random and even some sexual stuff (she likes to read erotic/mystery novels and I've even read one she told me not to read lol). We even got nicknames for each other and we joke around our kinks. We've broken the physical barrier a little bit and got more comfortable with each other, she cracks at my jokes and even stays late with me on call while I do my homework or make models (architecture). Im completely mad for her and I couldn't stand only being her friend, the problem is that im kind of insecure about her feelings towards me. Im a confident guy but im just really afraid of her saying no and completely forgetting about a future with her. I don't know if these outings count as dates or what, I don't know If we are dating or just friends. I don't know what we are, but I surely want to be with her and her knowing that I like her. We've never told each other we like each other so I don't know what we are, but I don't believe were just friends. Thanks for your time!

pd: Im Mexican (speak Spanish lol), so im sorry if there's any error in redaction.



Submitted July 06, 2022 at 12:13AM

I met her at my high school prom which was on December 17th, 2021(I never got to see her before that (covid)). My drunken self asked for her number and we started messaging and calling each other rather constantly, now its been almost 3 months that It is daily. We've gone out to walk and drink coffee at local parks and stuff, went to some shopping centres and even ice skating (last Friday; we held hands haha). In these dates we walk and talk from normal things to random and even some sexual stuff (she likes to read erotic/mystery novels and I've even read one she told me not to read lol). We even got nicknames for each other and we joke around our kinks. We've broken the physical barrier a little bit and got more comfortable with each other, she cracks at my jokes and even stays late with me on call while I do my homework or make models (architecture). Im completely mad for her and I couldn't stand only being her friend, the problem is that im kind of insecure about her feelings towards me. Im a confident guy but im just really afraid of her saying no and completely forgetting about a future with her. I don't know if these outings count as dates or what, I don't know If we are dating or just friends. I don't know what we are, but I surely want to be with her and her knowing that I like her. We've never told each other we like each other so I don't know what we are, but I don't believe were just friends. Thanks for your time!pd: Im Mexican (speak Spanish lol), so im sorry if there's any error in redaction.
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