I am a Male with a Sexual Dysfunction: feedback appreciated

Hi

I wanted some honest feedback from women so I am making this post. To keep a long story short:

I am a 28 year old male. 6+ years ago I sustained an injury to my penis that has caused me some dysfunction down there. I won't get into details of the condition but it does not have much medical research on it and the best course of treatment is medication. I sometimes feel severely depressed. My only saving grace is my symptoms are not as bad as some others I have spoken to but it still severely distresses me sometimes. Basically, I sometimes lose my erection during intercourse and my erections feel uncomfortable. The intercourse can vary from great to poor. Basically I may be good 70-75% of the time and poor or meh 20-25% of the time. There have been times where my erections are great for 2-3x in a night but then times where I can barely get past 5 minutes. Cialis works well but I try to avoid taking it all the time.

I sometimes feel like I will have no kids or a wife which is something I deeply want. I have had one gf since this issue came about and it caused some issues here and there but nothing major and since that, I have just been going for one night stands because I am too afraid to pursue anything more than that.

I would really appreciate your feedback: do I have unrealistic expectations about how much intercourse women want? I sometimes feel that women want intercourse for 45-90 minutes or maybe 10-15 minutes? I know all women are different but I just wanted feedback on how women view intercourse and its importance. Thank you for reading

Submitted October 04, 2021 at 12:48AM

HiI wanted some honest feedback from women so I am making this post. To keep a long story short:I am a 28 year old male. 6+ years ago I sustained an injury to my penis that has caused me some dysfunction down there. I won't get into details of the condition but it does not have much medical research on it and the best course of treatment is medication. I sometimes feel severely depressed. My only saving grace is my symptoms are not as bad as some others I have spoken to but it still severely distresses me sometimes. Basically, I sometimes lose my erection during intercourse and my erections feel uncomfortable. The intercourse can vary from great to poor. Basically I may be good 70-75% of the time and poor or meh 20-25% of the time. There have been times where my erections are great for 2-3x in a night but then times where I can barely get past 5 minutes. Cialis works well but I try to avoid taking it all the time.I sometimes feel like I will have no kids or a wife which is something I deeply want. I have had one gf since this issue came about and it caused some issues here and there but nothing major and since that, I have just been going for one night stands because I am too afraid to pursue anything more than that.I would really appreciate your feedback: do I have unrealistic expectations about how much intercourse women want? I sometimes feel that women want intercourse for 45-90 minutes or maybe 10-15 minutes? I know all women are different but I just wanted feedback on how women view intercourse and its importance. Thank you for reading