He keeps making plans and cancelling on me

I’m so confused. We started hanging out at the end of July. Went on a couple of dates.. after we kissed for the first time he sent a large bouquet of flowers home. That was the sweetest thing ever. He called me over to his cousins house for dinner, and we continued meeting, chilling, making out until the end of august. However, we met once the entire month of September. We made plans to spend time in a hotel room and do a little staycation (and push the limit on how physically intimate we had gotten so far). That was his idea. He wanted to do it. He made the booking. And then last minute.. he cancelled because he had “too much going on” I flat out asked if he was losing interest in the situation and he said no.. it was just work etc. but we hardly talk anymore. He hasn’t rescheduled. It feels like it’s just dying a slow death. Sooo.. I downloaded bumble and said ok, back to the drawing board I guess. I saw the same guy on bumble.. swiped right, and now we matched. Lol. He even used his extend feature on me to extend the match for 48 hours now. What is going on? I can’t read the situation at all and would love to know what people think before I figure out how to proceed. 😅

Submitted October 04, 2021 at 12:03AM

I’m so confused. We started hanging out at the end of July. Went on a couple of dates.. after we kissed for the first time he sent a large bouquet of flowers home. That was the sweetest thing ever. He called me over to his cousins house for dinner, and we continued meeting, chilling, making out until the end of august. However, we met once the entire month of September. We made plans to spend time in a hotel room and do a little staycation (and push the limit on how physically intimate we had gotten so far). That was his idea. He wanted to do it. He made the booking. And then last minute.. he cancelled because he had “too much going on” I flat out asked if he was losing interest in the situation and he said no.. it was just work etc. but we hardly talk anymore. He hasn’t rescheduled. It feels like it’s just dying a slow death. Sooo.. I downloaded bumble and said ok, back to the drawing board I guess. I saw the same guy on bumble.. swiped right, and now we matched. Lol. He even used his extend feature on me to extend the match for 48 hours now. What is going on? I can’t read the situation at all and would love to know what people think before I figure out how to proceed. 😅