Need some serious help
I need some help with some things I've been overthinking. I've recently seen this guy and I like him alot he seems pretty chill and we went skating when we first met up it was super fun. I want to hang out with him again so I asked if he wanted to smoke this weekend he said he was busy with work and stuff like that. For a bit of a background my past relationships haven't worked out because I can't see hints when someone wants to drop me (I don't pick up on social cues and have a hard time thinking people want to be around me) so I usually come off as clingy when I ask if they want to hang out and they are sitting there like "I've sent this bitch three dry snaps why can't she take a hint" when in actual fact I'm not clingy I just can't pick up hints, anyways back to the main point he said he was busy with work and I completely understand and should I text him next week to see if he wants to smoke? I know this is gonna look stupid and childish but when your autistic and trying out the dating scene you have to go over everything I don't want to seem clingy or annoying i just want to know if it's appropriate to text him week to see if he's free? We each have our own lives and I completely understand that because I'm really independent but I also don't want him to think I'm not interested. Goddam at times like this I wish I was neurotypical. On one side of the coin I'm overthinking everything and that he doesn't wanna hang out and on the other side I'm thinking that I am gonna come across too forward for his liking.
Submitted October 29, 2020 at 12:10AM
I need some help with some things I've been overthinking. I've recently seen this guy and I like him alot he seems pretty chill and we went skating when we first met up it was super fun. I want to hang out with him again so I asked if he wanted to smoke this weekend he said he was busy with work and stuff like that. For a bit of a background my past relationships haven't worked out because I can't see hints when someone wants to drop me (I don't pick up on social cues and have a hard time thinking people want to be around me) so I usually come off as clingy when I ask if they want to hang out and they are sitting there like "I've sent this bitch three dry snaps why can't she take a hint" when in actual fact I'm not clingy I just can't pick up hints, anyways back to the main point he said he was busy with work and I completely understand and should I text him next week to see if he wants to smoke? I know this is gonna look stupid and childish but when your autistic and trying out the dating scene you have to go over everything I don't want to seem clingy or annoying i just want to know if it's appropriate to text him week to see if he's free? We each have our own lives and I completely understand that because I'm really independent but I also don't want him to think I'm not interested. Goddam at times like this I wish I was neurotypical. On one side of the coin I'm overthinking everything and that he doesn't wanna hang out and on the other side I'm thinking that I am gonna come across too forward for his liking.
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