For background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. We don’t live together but I just graduated and he’s in a 5 year program so he graduates next year. We live about 30 minutes apart now that I’m no longer in college. At the beginning of our relationship, the sex was literally amazing. Multiple times a day and he is really attentive to my body and needs. Over time, the occurrences became less and less, but honestly I wasn’t concerned because the amount changed as we grew as a couple. It was still 1-2 times a week. Since last fall, the frequency decreased to about once a month which was still fine. Now, we haven’t been intimate since January. I automatically blamed myself and convinced myself it had to do with me. I’ve tried to talk to him about it multiple times but he just won’t give me anything to work with. First, he didn’t know why he didn’t want to be intimate, now all he says is he doesn’t want to tell me why..... I just feel like that’s such an immature way to...

My sister is always asking me for money. I graduated from college May 2019, and started my first full time job about a year ago. I have noticed that since I started, my sister has been asking me for money often. She has a two year old girl and she does not work full time. I don’t think she has worked full time since she was pregnant. Her husband is in college so he does not have a job either. She has had classes for cosmetology and has started to do nails as of lately. The problem is that, anytime she needs food, diapers, or anything random that comes up, she asks me for money. I do not get paid a lot. I get paid $13/hr. I do believe it is partially mine and my mothers fault. Once she for pregnant, she stopped working and my mother gave her our childhood home since she was buying a new house. My mom helped her with bills and expenses. I gave them copy of my card since they live about 12 hours away from me and sometimes my mom would deposit money to help me pay for school. It was easi...

I apologize for the long story, I’ll try my best to keep it brief. I (25F) met my best friend ‘Scott’ (25M) in school 7 years ago. He and his girlfriend ‘Lucy’ had been dating since they were 14, and I got pretty close to her as well over the years. Scott and I became almost inseparable, but there was never anything other than platonic friendship between us. Neither Lucy nor either of the guys I dated over the course of our friendship ever had an issue with us hanging out, because there was truly never any romantic intention on either side. For the last 5 years, Scott and Lucy have been living together, and got engaged last year. About 8 months ago, Lucy broke up with Scott out of the blue, saying that she felt like she had made a mistake getting into a relationship so young, and said she needed some time to be on her own and date other people. Scott was beyond devastated. I was the first person he told when they broke up, and I checked in on him every day for over a month, and made...

I loved this girl for the past 4 years and I told her a year ago that I liked her and she kinda friend zoned me and told me she loved me as a friend. 2months ago I accidentally met her while going home and we talked a bit for a sec. After a week or so she texted me and now we text on a daily basis and she gives me a lot of hints and I know she loves me from her friends too. And I LOVE HER TOO but something from inside keeps me away and tells me not to do it. I don’t know if Im afraid of a relationship or something but what do you guys think!! Submitted August 17, 2020 at 12:09AM I loved this girl for the past 4 years and I told her a year ago that I liked her and she kinda friend zoned me and told me she loved me as a friend. 2months ago I accidentally met her while going home and we talked a bit for a sec. After a week or so she texted me and now we text on a daily basis and she gives me a lot of hints and I know she loves me from her friends too. And I LOVE HER TOO but somethi...

Hi Everyone. I (F20) recently just rejected a guy (M21) after talking to him for about 10 days. We matched on tinder and there wasnt much of a spark at first but I thought he was good looking so I figured why not? We ended up exhanging snapchats and numbers. Next thing I knew, me and him facetimed every night this past week. We met for the first time yesterday and I dont know what it was but I was just not into it. He was a very nice guy irl, paid for everything, opened the door for me, etc.I dont really know what changed between the beginning of this week to yesterday when I was rubbed the wrong way. He also kinda had bad breath and didnt know how to kiss at all... I think that definitely played a part as well. I just didnt see the potential in person and I am also leaving for college pretty soon so I also took that into account. I let him down super easily because he was very much into me and looking forward to seeing me again. I just want to know am I bad person for rejecting him? ...

i'm asking this because this happened to me. and i lost out on a potential relationship due to a misunderstanding. I went out with a guy i really really liked. we made out. then i had to go. i had to catch the train. I smiled the whole way home. i was so excited about the possibility of where this could go. it had been a while since i really liked someone. My ex boyfriend cheated on me. but i was feeling butterflies again. the thing is i am very shy, and socially awkward. apparently he interpretted the way i left abruptly as me running out on him and ditching him and showing i wasn't interested the next day he told me he liked someone else. i was devastated. i didnt really quesion him because his text was very clear and unambiguous. i took it as a rejection. i took it as him telling me he was not interested. i found out later that he did this because he thought i rejected him. i feel this is all my fault. How often would a guy interpret a girl leaving abruptly and automatic...

How the hell should you respond to that and why is she saying that. She’s a girl that i’ve been fwb for a month ish now, but known for 5 years. Told her we wouldn’t get serious, and she told me she agreed (kinda doubt?). After not seing her the last 10 days or maybe even less (but even texted like 2 days ago), she Said she thought she might have scared me away... 10 days??? I have to add that we have gone from seeing each other like once a month to pretty frequently. I just also see other girls, i’m just kinda thinking if she want more to this, idk Submitted August 17, 2020 at 12:02AM How the hell should you respond to that and why is she saying that. She’s a girl that i’ve been fwb for a month ish now, but known for 5 years. Told her we wouldn’t get serious, and she told me she agreed (kinda doubt?).After not seing her the last 10 days or maybe even less (but even texted like 2 days ago), she Said she thought she might have scared me away... 10 days???I have to add that we ha...