I don't see how sleeping with different people can teach you how to get better at sex. I remember someone told me she slept with a guy who slept with many women and had no idea what he was doing in the bedroom. That's a difference between people who want to practice and people who chase the number. Some people would be like, "you need to sleep with different peiple." Even if I did sleep with other people, I'll learn nothing because I'd not know how I was doing and everyone has different preferences. Feedback or constructive criticism is only one way for me to get better. I never had any desire to sleep with other people. STD/STI is one of my main concerns. I also need to feel comfortable and safe. I also need trust. Before I lost my virginity, I hoped my first time would be with a FWB or boyfriend. I hoped that we would have sex again and again. My wish came true, and it was with my FWB. He is experienced, and he did suggest that I should sleep with someo...

For quite some time now I (M) (48) have dreamed of masturbating in front of a group of women...2,3, or more. I have always just thought it was part of my kinky side and I always orgasm very hard to this. Today the thought occurred to me that perhaps this might be a sign of narcissism rather than a kink. Is that more about stroking my ego than my member? Up until today I thought I just wanted as many women as possible to see me cum. Opinions? Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:15PM For quite some time now I (M) (48) have dreamed of masturbating in front of a group of women...2,3, or more. I have always just thought it was part of my kinky side and I always orgasm very hard to this. Today the thought occurred to me that perhaps this might be a sign of narcissism rather than a kink. Is that more about stroking my ego than my member? Up until today I thought I just wanted as many women as possible to see me cum. Opinions?

I’ve (26F) have been feeling worse and worse about sex for a while now. It’s hard to explain, mainly because when I express my concerns to others I’m hit with “you’re too young, you’re being stupid, etc etc” My first problem is with me. I have pelvic organ prolapse, and no amount of PT has reverse it. I’m constantly aware, and sex exasperates the feeling I already have. It creates pockets in the side of my vagina because of the bladder dropping that make what should normally feel at least somewhat snug like a change purse. It’s constantly like gravity is pulling me down, and because of my own personal anatomy, any position that would otherwise make me feel tighter just pulls air into there. This makes it even more pocket-y, and at that point no one can feel anything. If I suggest other positions, I’m hit with opposition because nothing can be felt like that either. This has created a very awful and consuming mental barrier to sex. I hate my body and don’t see myself as a worthy woma...

As the title states, I've been sexually shamed by a girl a couple of minutes ago. We had previous sexual conversations and they kinda died down a bit. I messaged her and we talked about sex a little bit, then told her that I bought some new toys to play with and was excited for them to come in the mail. She then took a screenshot of our conversation and told me to have some respect and that I shouldn't talk to her that way. Which I thought was very confusing and I got very flustered and I'm ashamed of the conversation to be posted in my community or on her Facebook page or any of her social media. I think she just got out of a relationship but I'm not 100% sure. Is there any way to deal with this stress and anxiety?? I'm really worried about if she posts our conversation and how to handle how people will see me. I'm very self-conscious about this topic and tend to keep these things hidden from people. Am I overthinking this??? Submitted April 16, 2020 a...

So I am currently in a relationship of 2 years. I met my boyfriend in highschool and now he is in the military stationed out west, therefore he only comes back about twice a year. He is the only person I have ever had sex with and I plan to keep it that way, and he does too. He regularly gets blood drawn and gets checked for STDs and we have already had certain "discussions" so I don't worry in the slightest about infidelity. Just a backstory to help you all understand... Now, to my question. Since we don't see each other often, when we finally do have sex, it hurts like the first time we had sex. It's just a pinch when he first puts it in, and I'm good for the entire session, but after I have climaxed, the constant friction of him thrusting for about 5 more minutes until he cums irritates my vagina. The next day I will wake up sore with microtears. Mind you, he came back for 2 weeks during my Christmas break, and i saw him about every two days. Each day we ...

So...I think I have a foot fetish. Basically up until now, I've just touched my gf's feet as we have sex. Something about just touching the bottom of them and the toes get me excited. My gf knows I like touching her feet and she calls it my mini foot fetish, but we haven't really explored anything more with it I'm wondering what else I should do with feet? Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:36PM So...I think I have a foot fetish. Basically up until now, I've just touched my gf's feet as we have sex. Something about just touching the bottom of them and the toes get me excited.My gf knows I like touching her feet and she calls it my mini foot fetish, but we haven't really explored anything more with itI'm wondering what else I should do with feet?

I couldn’t make my guy friend cum, and I’m just wondering if he’s even attracted to me Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:41PM I couldn’t make my guy friend cum, and I’m just wondering if he’s even attracted to me