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How to deal with my bf's problems

I(22F) don't know what to do concerning things my boyfriend (24M) gets mad at. Many times, it does not make sense to me. One time, he accidentally got my car towed and I wasn't mad at him about it because he took responsibility and said he would pay for it. Then he made me scold him (even though I didn't want to) because he "deserved it." Another time, he got mad because I gave up too easily when he was trying to crack my back for school (OMM). Even when I try to explain to him that we could try again, he's mad at the act. Even with me trying to make things better (saying sorry & that he's right), it has escalated to him throwing me out or telling me to leave several times. I don't want to demean him but I can't help thinking that some of the things he's angered at don't matter (because we end up making up a few hours later) or he's overreacting. TLDR Bf gets mad at things I don't understand Submitted April 04, 2020 at 12:...

I (17m) struggle with my girlfriend(17)during quarantine

I(17) stuggle to keep a bond with my mostly girlfriend (17) due to the quarantine. So i live in France and there is a girl wich wich i am very close to everything before thé quarantine was going well. I think we talked to much to eachother, and used eachother as an escape for boredom and this lead to our bond weakening. One day she disapeared for a few days and when she came back she said she has no feelings and was stupid to think it would work . I was really confused because weeks earlier she still made plans for a common future. At that Time she would get really mad at me, and said she dissapeared for two days to show me and make me understand. We kinda talked a lot but it was more arguing because she clearly wasnt in her normal state. Despite her saying she had no feelings she wanted friendship with me wich she described as « same as before but without sexual stuff » wich to me was confusing because i felt like all those things where just extras and our intimacy was thé ...

Ladies, what should I (23M) include in a coupon booklet for my girlfriend (20F) of 1 yr?

I have lots planned already such as cute date ideas, fun activities to do together, massages, me doing/getting things for her (post sex snack, breakfast in bed, make the bed for a week etc). There are also a number of sexual ones such as quickie, long sesh, oral, strip tease, anal (we have already done this a few times but I think I'd be lucky if she redeems this one!), make a porno ( we have videoed stuff in the past but not too professionally if ygm), go shopping for a new toy. ​ My question is, what would you like your man to include in a coupon booklet. Sexual and non sexual. I am finding the sexual ones difficult to come up with since we have a very good sex life and normally if one of us wants something we don't need a coupon to get our way! ​ TL;DR What would you like to receive in a coupon booklet from your significant other Thanks Submitted April 04, 2020 at 12:07AM I have lots planned already such as cute date ideas, fun activities to do together, massages...

Uncomfortable / anxious around my father

Uncomfortable / anxious around my father I’m new to this, so I’m sorry for any formatting issues. For the past 4 years, my (20f) dad and i’s relationship has been extremely toxic. It started when I began to have political views vastly different than his and we began to argue every day. I tried to bring up other topics we could talk about, but it seems like whatever we talk about, he makes it about how I need to think differently. About a year ago, I borrowed his phone when he was not in the room and I saw a large amount of pictures of naked women sent in a chat with him and two friends. My dad has been married to my mom for 20+ years and though they argue all the time, I don’t think he would cheat on her. Ever since then, I’ve felt anger towards him that I can’t move past. When I come out of the bathroom and I’m just wearing a towel and I walk past him I feel vastly uncomfortable. When I mentioned to my mom out loud I wanted to buy another pair of high-waisted jeans, my dad said h...

I [17F] cut off a close toxic friend [17F] but she wonders if we're still friends and I'm not sure

So I've been friends with her since we've started middle school. We've been through a lot and I've helped her many times. She's a great person at heart, but she can be quite abuse, controlling, and rude. Though she did have problems of her own, she did not know any limits. It was because of this that I've questioned about cutting her off. During the summer before my junior year, I decided to cut her off after being unable to handle the negativity she brings. It had increasingly grown and I didn't know if I could help her anymore as it was affecting me. She didn't get the help she needed when we tried to and she wanted to. I felt really bad leaving her like that, but our friendship has grown toxic over the years. She knew what she was doing but didn't care. I helped her the best I could by providing comfort and advice. Like I said, she was controlling as well. My entire friendship with her before cutting her off consisted of her trying to do what s...

Why is MMF threesome so taboo? Especially around POC.

I’m(f20) an african female and I’ve had casual conversations about how it would be really interesting to have a threesome with two males and one female. And it seems guys just think it’s the worst thing a female can ever say and that females who want that are ones to stay away from. I just think it’s very annoying for the double standard because if it’s two straight women and one guy it’s seen as okay. Edit: POC= People of colour. Anyway can comment though, just wanted to outline how it is in my social circle (in which I’ve had this conversation) which are predominantly black. Edit: please stop sending me personal messages asking if I want to have a threesome with you. Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:11PM I’m(f20) an african female and I’ve had casual conversations about how it would be really interesting to have a threesome with two males and one female. And it seems guys just think it’s the worst thing a female can ever say and that females who want that are ones to stay awa...

A positive social shift regarding the sexiness of redheaded women!

I remember a decade or so ago when I was DEFINITELY in the minority, having a thing for redheads! They were the butt of every joke and everyone raised their eyebrows when I said how hot they were. Now it seems like the answer to every sexiness question is “Redheads! Redheads! Redheads!” As a straight male I can’t speculate on whether the perceived sexiness of redheaded men has changed over time. All I can say is, Viva la revolución! Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:13PM I remember a decade or so ago when I was DEFINITELY in the minority, having a thing for redheads! They were the butt of every joke and everyone raised their eyebrows when I said how hot they were.Now it seems like the answer to every sexiness question is “Redheads! Redheads! Redheads!”As a straight male I can’t speculate on whether the perceived sexiness of redheaded men has changed over time.All I can say is, Viva la revolución!