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I need your help guys

Sorry for my bad English, and this is my story : Before Valentine day, i recognized my gf not texted much. One day, she silent, and i asked her why did she do that. Did i not good to her?, or she had a new relationship with someone else? She said, i'm too good for her, and she doesn't have any new relationship. She also said, maybe we (me and her) not fit together, not suitable, and her love to me not much as before. She told me she needs space. As a well raised man, i'm accepted and respected her request and i said "you're still my gf, so text me when you totally feel good, i'll take care of you" I thought, oh my that's a breakup, and it hurt like hell. So i decided to do no contact, focus on my job, do something fun. Having fun with my friend. Forget her. Thank god. Time heals everything. I feel good day by day, not much but a little every day. After 2 week, she texted me "You don't miss me?" We had a short talk, face to face. Sh...

Huh?

Let’s say you and a group of girls met on vacation and it’s obvious that one of them likes you and you feel really confident about it. Also you know that she is single. Something to note is that you and this girl are a couple hours away in neighboring cities and y’all go to college. Towards the end, everyone exchanged social media and a couple days later, all the others (majority are taken) accept your friend request but the girl you like/likes you hasn’t accepted it. Why? Submitted March 19, 2020 at 12:05AM Let’s say you and a group of girls met on vacation and it’s obvious that one of them likes you and you feel really confident about it. Also you know that she is single. Something to note is that you and this girl are a couple hours away in neighboring cities and y’all go to college. Towards the end, everyone exchanged social media and a couple days later, all the others (majority are taken) accept your friend request but the girl you like/likes you hasn’t accepted it. Why?

I came back with my ex and he conffesed he needs time about sex. I feel guilty, what should I do?

Knew him 3yrs ago. Well, our first relationship took time to concrete. It didn't work bc I had a lot of trust problems that I dragged from pasts relationships but...we always liked each other. In that moment we had sex but it was always bad; we had no experience and I had no mental stability (had lots of guilty thoughts around sex). This time, after 1,5 year we reconnected. He ended up inviting me at his home at the second date. We "had sex" but he stopped it bc in his words "he felt tired". Okay, I believe him but still felt something weird. Thought something went wrong but end up believing it just was me and my bad thoughts. He kept sending me flirty messages and it thought everything was okay. Yesterday came up to his house again. I was giving him an oral and he didn't seem into it. (I asked him various time if he liked but he didn't looked exited). So I asked him If he felt right... He started saying that everytime we see each other he has a heavy d...

Yes location matters

In Toronto, Canada, rejections won't ever be sweet and warm like this "Oh you are such a wonderful sweet man but I'm not ready to date at the moment. However I have no doubt you will meet the love of your life very soon have a wonderful day"" In Toronto, rejections will go like this Guy - "Hi my name is..." Girl - "No I won't date you you disgusting animal!! I won't even think about dating you ever in my life. You have 3 seconds before I call for all cops within 50 miles radius" === Proof === http://imgur.com/gallery/mxKH3fn If you are in Toronto, it is not your fault rejections are painful. That simply is the way it is in Toronto I thought I was doing something wrong when I asked girls out and was rejected time after time, but other guys in Toronto told me they notice the same pattern when they were rejected. A 47 year old obese woman in Toronto told me she is hit on a few times a week. Imagine what it would be like for young...

I got a girl's number and don't know what to do

Last Saturday night I [18M] met two friends at a friend's house. We played a drinking game and my friend's sister [21F] joined us. We all had lots of fun and got pretty drunk. Before we met my friend had jokingly proposed to set me up with his sister because "she can't find a decent guy". That joke was mentioned again when we hung out but I didn't take it seriously. However, after we got drunk his sister started flirting with me, sitting next to me and incidentally touching my leg while we were talking. She then took my phone and entered her number. She has since texted me once, asking when the group would meet again, and we're probably gonna hang out this weekend. I have zero dating experience and don't have many friends, so this situation is really new to me. On one hand, I find it hard to believe she's interested in me since I'm younger and less experienced and really thin (I once heard her say she doesn't like thin guys). On the oth...

Read if you don't know what love is.

So here you are little human, why does this title got you? You're a little bit broken, aren't you? Well, I was too, I'm only writing this because I saw a post from a close person of mine that is struggling with this, she is just so unsure of how things work and so on, so, look. Love is not something that you just discover even though you can find it on your way back home, or in college or at work, love can be 2 steps away or a cople miles away, love cries, love cares, love suffers and love heals. Love is something that you're not just gonna arrive and it will be there, no, love it's something that you will have to build. and you might be questioning yourself why does everybody says that love is something that you have to build, well it's because it is different for each person it's because you have to build the love that is good for you there are many people out there calling things love when they are actually hurting people so love is not the same for eve...

She promised another guy not to have sex with me, wtf!?

So, if you want a background story it is here https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fkpsdd/i_dont_understand_her/ So we went to the cinema tonight after she rejected me sexually earlier today. We spooned the entire time and she was hugging me tightly (VIP Cinema with sofas) We were clear I wanted her and I wanted to have sex with her after and she seemed to be turned on by it too. But again after the cinema she flaked on me and wanted to be dropped off at home because she was tired. So I confronted her about it in the car, because I get the feeling there is someone else in the picture. She denies everything and just says she is really tired. After I dropped her off at home we texted some, and I told her how turned on she makes me and I really want her. She confesses to me that there is another guy, and that they stopped seeing eachother one month ago after we decided to meet up and date, because she really wanted to meet me. But she promised this other guy to not have s...