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Major crush

I have a huge crush on this guy who’s like 6 years older than me (20F). He’s a friend of a friend but he’s super cute and we just get along really well. I don’t want to absolutely humiliate myself but I can’t stop think about him. The age difference doesn’t really bother me but I’m worried he will think I’m too young. Wtf do I do?? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 12:24AM I have a huge crush on this guy who’s like 6 years older than me (20F). He’s a friend of a friend but he’s super cute and we just get along really well. I don’t want to absolutely humiliate myself but I can’t stop think about him. The age difference doesn’t really bother me but I’m worried he will think I’m too young. Wtf do I do??

I [18M] didn’t get any contact info. Feeling regretful.

So I attend college and in between classes I have a huge gap. I decided during that gap that I wanted to buy some AirPods at the nearest Apple store. A girl my age helps me out with the transaction, all while we have some very light and mildly flirty conversation. I was planning on trying to get some form of communication as the transaction finished, but she gave me what I came for and said enjoy. I left and grabbed a bite and while eating I thought about going back to try and grab a number. Since I didn’t purchase AppleCare for the headphones, my plan was to try and return to the store to add the AppleCare to the headphones with her again, and this time I’d (hopefully) be successful. As I walked back to the store, I noticed she was speaking with her manager at a table near the cafe. I assumed it was something about her job, so I waited and waited close to the entrance of the store, since I didn’t want to interrupt something that was potentially important for her. The convo between...

What to do after a first date?

Hey! ​ I'm a 30-something girl, and I went out a couple days ago with a guy from Tinder. I went straight to his house, we made dinner (or he did and I helped a tiny bit), we had wine, talked A LOT and had sex. I spent the night, had breakfast with him (which he also made) and left. I texted him the same day in the afternoon, saying that I loved spending time with him, and that I had forgotten something at his house (which was a true accident). He said well, you'll have to come back and get it, and a winky face. That was yesterday. I really want a second date with him, but I don't where to go from know. I know that's really silly, but I'd love some advice on waiting for him to say hi/ask me out or texting him (and what to say). Submitted January 31, 2020 at 12:27AM Hey!​I'm a 30-something girl, and I went out a couple days ago with a guy from Tinder. I went straight to his house, we made dinner (or he did and I helped a tiny bit), we had wine, talked ...

She(18F) has mutual feelings for me(18M) but doesn't want to be in a relationship due to her religion

So I posted about this elsewhere and I'm still lost from the advice. So recently I told a good friend of mine I like her but she politely rejected me. Today she tells me she does have mutual feelings for me but says she cant be in a relationship with me due to her religious promise and beliefs ( Shes christian). I'm Islamic. I honestly like her a lot and want to find a way to make this work or at least find some kind of closure here. Any advice would be appreciated. I'm so confused and lost right now. TL;DR: Confessed to a friend a while ago got rejected, today she tells me she does have feelings for me but cant be more then friends due to her religious promise. Any advice for my situation? Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:54PM So I posted about this elsewhere and I'm still lost from the advice.So recently I told a good friend of mine I like her but she politely rejected me.Today she tells me she does have mutual feelings for me but says she cant be in a rel...

I want to strengthen my relationship (17M) with my brother (20) really don't know how or if I should.

Me and my brother have never necessarily been close. To start, we're half brothers, we share the same dad. He lives in NY and I live in NJ so needless to say, there's a fair bit of distance between us. Whether or not I'd like to admit it, I've always looked up to him and I really care about him. I remember when I was younger, I'd always want to be like him. I wanted to dress like him, listen to his music, even kind of look like him. But even from that age, it kind of seemed to me like he didn't want to know me, like I was just an annoyance. Well, as we got older I started to hang with him when he came down to visit my dad,(my mom and dad are split up) and we kind of bonded, or so I thought. One week, me and my friend went to NY for the weekend. We were alone and wanted to do some fun things. I thought, who better to ask than my brother? He lives in the Bronx and we were Manhattan, a little bit of a husk but nothing insane, so he said that he wanted us to go to ...

Feeling bad about the money that got literally wasted.

Dunno where exactly to start tbh. Had a LDR for 2 years (F21) (M21), and with long distance, I really mean it. I feel like we really loved each other, we had our problems tho, mainly cultural ones. We still had plans for the future, wanted to meet up badly. At that time I had a minimum wage job, so there was no way I could afford the money for a really long time. He talked with his parents, mainly his dad, and he offered to pay for the entire flight (~800$), plus every other costs that would come with it, so at the end it was probably around 1000$. I thought about it for a long time, but my ex said I should just do it when his dad is okay with it. So, I did meet him, but shit just got worse. Some issues with his parents, apparently they didn't like me at all he told me after it, even when I tried to be really polite, and I'm not known as a natural rude person imo. I guess cultural differences and a language barrier with his mom were the main problems there. Plus, our problems ...

How to describe a boyfriend (24) who is quite reserved?

I find it very easy to describe outgoing/social people. It easy to describe them and say “oh he’s outgoing.. social, talks a lot, very cheeky, a happy person” But how do I describe a person who is the opposite without sounding negative? As he is a great person to!? I find myself saying “Oh he’s quiet, reserved, a good person, seems serious but has a good heart” I don’t know I find it soooo difficult and I don’t want to come across negative. I want to talk about these him highly to! Advice? What characteristics could I talk about? TLDR: how do I describe a person who is quite reserved? What characteristics could I focus on? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 12:08AM I find it very easy to describe outgoing/social people. It easy to describe them and say“oh he’s outgoing.. social, talks a lot, very cheeky, a happy person”But how do I describe a person who is the opposite without sounding negative? As he is a great person to!? I find myself saying“Oh he’s quiet, reserved, a good p...