I'm not 17 anymore, I'm an adult but this happened when I was 17. Basically I used to suffer from arthritis and I was regularly sent to this doctor. He knew I suffer from anxiety and am a generally meek person so I never said anything but this is something that really confuses me. One thing I want to say beforehand is that I don't wish to accuse him or anything, I am only asking this for my own clarity so that I can realise it and move on, I have no wish to contact him and I no longer have arthritis so I won't need to meet him again. So please don't think that I'm trying to accuse an innocent person, I just would like some clarity about this. Now, what happened is that I used to go to him and he would make me lay down and start pressing his hand over my chest (above my clothes, but sometimes I'd be wearing a V necked shirt so there would be some skin sometimes), and would press his hand really hard over my chest and the space between my boobs and a lot of...

Tl;dr - she thinks there's no depth (maybe spark) to our relationship for her but I diagree I've had a very odd moment with the girl I was dating, her thinking there's no depth (I think she sort of alluded to 'the spark') but I believe there clearly has been. She'd thought about this since I asked her 10 days ago now about letting me be her bf, and she'd come back to me over the weekend saying there no depth, that she would've expected to feel more. We've spent lots of time together over the past 7 weeks, texted everyday, gotten along very well, and stayed at each other's places. We've had 6 good dates in that time, we seemed to look forward to them, and several times she was the one to ask about the next time, and when she came over on the weekend it was supposed to be our 7th. I think maybe she freaked out and overlooked the good times? We acknowledged that she'd thought about things not working out over the past week. She was concer...

We have been dating since more than 6 years and there have been several ups and downs including him cheating on me which I forgave as I have immense love for him to make myself weak. Now I found out he is on tumbler sharing inappropriate pictures and watching them and later on he has sex with me. We have a lot of sex which is also disturbing for me at times. I think I may be over reacting at the pictures part as I forgave something as big as cheating. I also think that I am not unhappy but certainly not very happy with this relationship. We are in a live in and it’s hard to move out or take a big step as we have always dealt with everything calmly. What should I do to save this relationship? Or to regain my peace of my mind? TL;DR He’s been on tumbler sharing pictures of naked women and also asking a few of them for it. Submitted January 22, 2020 at 12:15AM We have been dating since more than 6 years and there have been several ups and downs including him cheating on me which I...

Fiance (M30) doesn’t post me (F26)on social media Before I get into it I’m just gonna admit that I know this is petty but it’s still something that bothers me. We’ve been together 3 years, engaged 1, and getting married next year. In this whole time we’ve been together he has never posted anything about me on social media until very recently. It was after I talked to him about it for the second time, about how it was bugging me and I think to make me feel better he posted me on his story. After the first time I talked to him about this he stopped posting on Instagram at all, just on his story and at the time. Before this he didn’t ever really post on his story. I didn’t even think the two things were linked. And after the second time we talked about it he posted me on his story a few days later and I thought it was a sweet gesture but honestly now thinking back to it I feel like he could have just blocked certain people from seeing his story. He also said he would post me when we h...

I (21f) live with my parents (50s). I work full time and pay rent. I've had one previous serious relationship, and currently I am 2 months into dating someone new. My ex was always allowed to sleep in my bed, although I waited longer to invite him to stay over. One of the only things I disagree on with my (usually very liberal) mom is sex and relationships. She hasn't been single since the late 70s, and I think she's very out of touch with modern dating. I remember she was shocked when I slept with my ex after a perfectly average number of dates, by modern standards. So, I mentioned that I was staying over at my new SO's place the other week, and she assumed I was staying in the spare room. I'm usually very open with my parents but... I didn't correct her. Ironically, I'm shy and haven't actually slept with my new guy yet- we just cuddled- but I didn't want to cause the drama that would inevitably come from admitting I slept in his bed. Now, the ...

I have to break things off with him. I have to. I will do it in person because he does mean something to me. But I just can't keep doing this. He is toxic and has been manipulating me. I just truly feel like I don't deserve what he puts me through. But he is my first love. So whenever I want to say goodbye, I can't do it. It just sucks getting it wrong. It sucks holding onto something just because you're hoping it will change. It sucks being wrong about someone. I just need to know that there is something after him. Like I know it's going to hurt me so badly, I'm hoping I don't hurt myself trying to cope. I just feel so scared about ending things because I don't know what's on the other side. Please help me. TL;DR- How do cope after I've lost him? Submitted January 22, 2020 at 12:33AM I have to break things off with him. I have to. I will do it in person because he does mean something to me. But I just can't keep doing this. He is ...

Maybe a bit old school but wondering what the consensus is out there on when people ask someone to ‘get together’. And what to make of this ask? I’m asking because, I find people in their 30s ( if in a relationship ) are usually less likely to ask a single person to meet for drinks. So for example, a person wouldn’t ask the ‘hey let’s do something’ if committed due to their own time and relationship. Or am I off base - Has anyone just meant this type of hang-out as a strictly friends thing? Trying to figure out if the ask I received is a friends thing or more given it’s evening drinks with a former colleague I ran into in the grocery store haha. Submitted January 21, 2020 at 11:42PM Maybe a bit old school but wondering what the consensus is out there on when people ask someone to ‘get together’. And what to make of this ask? I’m asking because, I find people in their 30s ( if in a relationship ) are usually less likely to ask a single person to meet for drinks.So for example, ...