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My [22M] ex gf [21F] texted me. Not sure what to make of it.

TL;DR at the bottom of post My ex gf and I dated for 5 years. The relationship was very good and happy, we cared deeply for one another and had made many future plans together that we agreed on such as where to live, pets, children, house decor, whatever. However she broke up with me 5 months ago. Since then a lot has gone down between us. At first I begged and pleaded and did all the bad stuff and I did it for a long time. She would always ask me for space and I would fail to give it. At the most I gave her 3 weeks of no contact, prior to that it was always me texting her and it was not good contact. When I gave her 3 weeks of space we actually had a good conversation, I was asking her for advice on something, she admitted she felt sad and fragile lately and no longer knew if she wanted the breakup. However the next day she got mad and blocked me so idk what to make of that. About three weeks later was Thanksgiving. She had some things to return to me and actually said she wanted...

I{26F] Feel That I Have No Choice But to Leave Him {27M}

TL;DR: My Boyfriend of 9 year's personality has changed so drastically to the point i feel i have to leave him. He is refusing to see this, and refusing to look into help that i believe we both could use to save the relationship. ​ I have been with my fiance for close to 9 years, but as of late things have changed. ​ ​ In the past year, he has become more and more judgmental to the things that make me happy. I have started to feel like he does not care the way he used to. He is just angry all the time, nothing i can see explains it ​ ​ I can pin point the moment it started too. I am a fanfiction writer and very reserved about who i tell this. No one i know in real life has read my work online and i like to keep it that way. He always knew i did, but never asked about it. It was the one thing i wished to keep private and he understood this. He has always understood our privacy line, i give him his and he mine, we trust one another. Well I finally felt okay showing him one o...

What can we expect at an "Adult Entertainment" Club? (Velvet Rope in Portland)

My partner and I heard about this place and kinda want to try it out. Does anybody have some details or personal stories about what to expect at a "Social Club" Yes, we have a pretty good idea and yes, we've read reviews and all that, but it's mostly PG and surprisingly vague. We're fun and social but feel like having a better idea going in would make for a better experience lol. p.s. sorry for any mistakes. I typed this fast and am using my phone. Thanks! Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:32PM My partner and I heard about this place and kinda want to try it out. Does anybody have some details or personal stories about what to expect at a "Social Club" Yes, we have a pretty good idea and yes, we've read reviews and all that, but it's mostly PG and surprisingly vague. We're fun and social but feel like having a better idea going in would make for a better experience lol.p.s. sorry for any mistakes. I typed this fast and am using my phon...

how can I take control?

I recently lost my virginity and didn't know what to do so he was doing almost everything. I gave him head but I completely failed when I tried to ride... it was so embarrassing. but I'm about to have sex again and this time I actually want to do more. but he doesn't seem the submissive type and truth be told I am not dominant. but I want to try for a little. and generally do more than give head and keep my back arched/lay in missionary. can I get some tips and advice on taking control? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:33PM I recently lost my virginity and didn't know what to do so he was doing almost everything. I gave him head but I completely failed when I tried to ride... it was so embarrassing. but I'm about to have sex again and this time I actually want to do more. but he doesn't seem the submissive type and truth be told I am not dominant. but I want to try for a little. and generally do more than give head and keep my back arched/lay in missionar...

How tell guy i had bad sex with that I don’t want to see him anymore

So I met this guy in a bar and after talking for a while we added each other on Snapchat and he seemed cool. I wanted to have sex with him but I didn’t want to rush it because it’s a lot more hot when I hold myself back for the first couple times we hang out. So the third time we hung out I made my move and it was so hot when we had sex and we had sex a few times that night. I didn’t come but it was very passionate. He made breakfast the next day then left. Fast forward to a few days later he comes over and we hang out for a little bit then we go to my room and we have sex and after we had sex we were cuddling and he was telling me “crazy” things he has done in the bedroom with his ex. he would add a lot of unnecessary details (even tho I didn’t ask) but he mentioned his ex so much and that just really turned me off. I noticed that he talks about his ex a lot, but doing it right after sex was a big mood killer. I thought we would go another round and I was hoping to have a lot more se...

Guys- pepperoni nipples?

What do you guys prefer? I’m a girl with pretty small boobs and perky nipples and I am not so attracted to the big nipples that take up like half a boob. But it doesn’t matter what I like- what do you guys like? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:36PM What do you guys prefer? I’m a girl with pretty small boobs and perky nipples and I am not so attracted to the big nipples that take up like half a boob. But it doesn’t matter what I like- what do you guys like?

Do you like stimulation after an orgasm?

What are your personal thoughts on continued stimulation after an orgasm? For example, apple polishing is stimulating the head of the penis after an orgasm to produce a second orgasm, squirting, or just pleasure. It can be very uncomfortable for some. Do you enjoy it? Alternatively, have any of your partners seemed to enjoy it? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:38PM What are your personal thoughts on continued stimulation after an orgasm?For example, apple polishing is stimulating the head of the penis after an orgasm to produce a second orgasm, squirting, or just pleasure. It can be very uncomfortable for some.Do you enjoy it? Alternatively, have any of your partners seemed to enjoy it?