27F here. For me I enjoy sex, but 99% of the time I don’t orgasm through penetration but I like seeing my partner excited and happy so I fake it sometimes. Also me making extra sounds/expressions makes myself more into it as well. I’d like to experience orgasms more and I found some things that turn me on. But still there are times when I just don’t, is it ok to pretend? Guys don’t really seem to know haha Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:36PM 27F here. For me I enjoy sex, but 99% of the time I don’t orgasm through penetration but I like seeing my partner excited and happy so I fake it sometimes. Also me making extra sounds/expressions makes myself more into it as well.I’d like to experience orgasms more and I found some things that turn me on. But still there are times when I just don’t, is it ok to pretend? Guys don’t really seem to know haha

I’m 28 year old male and as the title says I’m a virgin, well I actually have gone to an escort at this point. Anyway I’ve always dealt with social anxiety and inferiority complexes so I’ve steered clear and avoided a lot of opportunity’s in the past. I can’t do this to my self anymore, I feel inhuman and incomplete and have suicidal thoughts every day. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a little over three weeks now but haven’t been able to make any real progress there yet. One thing I’m really struggling with is penis size. Mine is 6 inches and a little over 5 inches in girth. I know it’s average, a high average apparently but I just have a hard time believing in those statistics. I’ve seen men staying they’ve been dumped for 5.5” and other average sizes, you see girls post shit about no one under 7 inches, you see women say if any women tells you that she prefers average she’s lying cause women are conditioned to cater to men’s egos apparently. Maybe most people don’t take that shit ...

Wife is very attractive, hugely busty 36DD hot. No physical activity sometimes for a year. She really only has me pleasure myself to her. She rejects pretty much all other contact, activity, providing a variety of excuses (i. tired, kids etc.,) If we are ever alone during the day before work she will not stop for a minute even when I beg she will not give in. She has everything: great kids, job, life, house, car, clothes. Never comments about men, privates, or me for that matter and im very attractive. Only time she wis likely to give in is when I cause a major scene maybe while on vacation but still will only do it once then nothing else or if another women scoops me up then she does back to normal when she scares her off and thinks shes out of pic. Doesnt pay attention to sex or get into the moment. Never initiates anything. Wont answer if she is a lesbian wants another man, bbc, gngbang etc. She got mad when I bought a rabbit dildo toy. Having a hot women around you every day is t...

I have also never kissed a girl, held hands with a girl or spent time with a girl doing any activities. I'm just bitter now, I don't really enjoy anything because I'm so frustrated. At this point I feel like I'll eventually get to the point where I'm robbed of joy completely. I haven't spoken to a girl in months, not even a casual conversation, I haven't even seen one. By the time I speak to a girl again I'm going to come off so creepy that I can almost guarantee that all women will despise me! Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:43PM I have also never kissed a girl, held hands with a girl or spent time with a girl doing any activities. I'm just bitter now, I don't really enjoy anything because I'm so frustrated. At this point I feel like I'll eventually get to the point where I'm robbed of joy completely. I haven't spoken to a girl in months, not even a casual conversation, I haven't even seen one. By the time I speak t...

Hello /r/sex , I'm creating a sex "board game", mostly just for fun with the wife. But I was looking to get some more general ideas to include in it to include new actions into the foreplay or positions. The general theme is to perform actions on one another, with intensity mounting, like starting with teasing/stripping, onto masturbation and finally having sex. Can you guys share a couple of your favorite "moves" when you're doing the deed? Here's some examples, with a escalating order: Removing panties with teeth Caress boobs, teasing and circling but never reaching the nipple Sucking ice-cream out of nipple Kissing only outer lips (pussy) Inserting only the head Since I'm a guy, having input from females would be even better, as I will probably focus this on my perspective. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:44PM Hello /r/sex, I'm creating a sex "board game", mostly just for fun with the wife. But I was looking to ge...

I’ve been noticing that I rarely get my bf to finish when we have sex. We’re very much sexually and romantically attracted to each other & we’re also very open about our desires. Our problem is purely physical. I get too wet when we’re doing it PIV which results in him not feeling the friction that makes him orgasm. We’ve both acknowledged that I get too wet after a while, and he tells me that I shouldn’t feel bad because he knows that he’s doing a great job of satisfying me, but I still feel guilty because all I want is to REALLY please him. Is there anything that I can do to make him feel more friction (and less wetness) down there? Thanks to everyone in advance :) Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:45PM I’ve been noticing that I rarely get my bf to finish when we have sex. We’re very much sexually and romantically attracted to each other & we’re also very open about our desires. Our problem is purely physical.I get too wet when we’re doing it PIV which results in ...

A few years ago my engagement fell apart, the relationship ended, and I found myself single again. The relationship was rather lengthy for me, and I consider it my first actual relationship. Before her (I’m a guy in my mid-20s) I had always just hooked up with random girls I didn’t really know, and enjoyed the fact I had no connection with them. During the relationship though, I learned how fulfilling getting to know one partner and the ins and outs of their body was, and learned to absolutely love having tons of passionate sex with someone I cared about was. Though neither of us were virgins when we started dating, we had a ton of “firsts” with each other because we could be comfortable and engage our interests. Fast forward to a few years after it ended, and though I’ve hooked up with other people, and tried dating other people, I’ve continuously run into a problem: sex just is not enjoyable at all. It doesn’t matter how attractive my partner is, if they’re super good at sex, if I...