Should I just end things now?

Should I just end things now?

I’ve been seeing this guy for two months now, officially seeing him for about a month.

The first month or so was great, he was texting me all the time, we saw each other at least twice a week, spent the night at his house two weeks ago, and it seems like ever since that weekend it’s been different.

We saw each other last Wednesday, but he had to cut it short to help his dad with something, Thursday he said we would do something, then Thursday told me he was busy helping his dad again, we did meet up later Thursday night, then last weekend I was supposed to go to his house Saturday, he says come down we’ll do breakfast, then 10 minutes later says never mind don’t come down and gave me a lame excuse, so I didn’t seem him at all this weekend.
Had to practically beg him to see me Monday. We had made plans for two weeks now for this upcoming weekend because it’s his birthday, he now tells me his work friends want to take him out Saturday, I even asked him multiple times this week if we could just do dinner one night this week and he kept saying I don’t know. I just sent him a text saying how I feel as though how it seems tough to see him and explaining the whole situation, he hasn’t answered yet. He says he wants to be with me so I don’t understand why he doesn’t want to see me. I feel like he has changed so much these last two weeks.



Submitted October 19, 2023 at 12:03AM

Should I just end things now?I’ve been seeing this guy for two months now, officially seeing him for about a month. The first month or so was great, he was texting me all the time, we saw each other at least twice a week, spent the night at his house two weeks ago, and it seems like ever since that weekend it’s been different. We saw each other last Wednesday, but he had to cut it short to help his dad with something, Thursday he said we would do something, then Thursday told me he was busy helping his dad again, we did meet up later Thursday night, then last weekend I was supposed to go to his house Saturday, he says come down we’ll do breakfast, then 10 minutes later says never mind don’t come down and gave me a lame excuse, so I didn’t seem him at all this weekend. Had to practically beg him to see me Monday. We had made plans for two weeks now for this upcoming weekend because it’s his birthday, he now tells me his work friends want to take him out Saturday, I even asked him multiple times this week if we could just do dinner one night this week and he kept saying I don’t know. I just sent him a text saying how I feel as though how it seems tough to see him and explaining the whole situation, he hasn’t answered yet. He says he wants to be with me so I don’t understand why he doesn’t want to see me. I feel like he has changed so much these last two weeks.
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