Went on a date wit a girl twice and didnt make a move both times did i mess up? and if so is it still recoverable.

I went on a date to dave n busters with a girl i been talking to for a couple weeks and at first it was awkward and there wasnt much talking or interaction but after when we went to get somthing to eat we talked for like 2 hours and got to know eachother well and when we were leaving i was planning on kissing her goodnight but i chickened out and it ended up with her giving me a hug and she told me she had a great time and we should hangout again, which i agreed and we parted ways. So fast foward a week later we plan to hangout again and went to watch a scary movie at the theaters and again i planned on making a move like putting my arm around her or atleast hold her hand to atleast break the physical touch barrier and again i chickened out. after the movie we went to the park and walked and smoked and talked about life and random topics and found a bench to sit on to continue our conversation, we ended up talking for like 20 mins on the bench until she said she was cold so we went to my car to talk and lemme tell you it got so awkward we sat in so much quietness with the music playing and every now and then a random question comes up and an answer then quietness again. This continued for like an hour and i still havent made a move to kiss her or anything. it ended with her saying shes ready to go home so i agree and i take her home and when i drop her off she gives me a hug and said she had fun and we should do it again and i agreed of course but i think she noticed on my face i had looked defeated by the way she looked at mebefore she closed the door. She ended up texting me later asking if i made it home safe which i replied yes with some inside joke from what we were talking about from the date and she told me again she had a nice time tonight and told me goodnight nd sweet dreams, which i replied that i had a good time too and should do it again somtime and she just hearted the message in the morning.

i feel like a complete puss right now bcuz i choked and chickened out on multiple situations and dont know if i should still pursue her bcuz of embarassment or if shes even interested in me bcuz she thinks that im not interested in her bcuz she alr thought that in the past. but at the end of the day i still want her. what do you guys think i should do.

Submitted October 09, 2022 at 11:53PM

I went on a date to dave n busters with a girl i been talking to for a couple weeks and at first it was awkward and there wasnt much talking or interaction but after when we went to get somthing to eat we talked for like 2 hours and got to know eachother well and when we were leaving i was planning on kissing her goodnight but i chickened out and it ended up with her giving me a hug and she told me she had a great time and we should hangout again, which i agreed and we parted ways. So fast foward a week later we plan to hangout again and went to watch a scary movie at the theaters and again i planned on making a move like putting my arm around her or atleast hold her hand to atleast break the physical touch barrier and again i chickened out. after the movie we went to the park and walked and smoked and talked about life and random topics and found a bench to sit on to continue our conversation, we ended up talking for like 20 mins on the bench until she said she was cold so we went to my car to talk and lemme tell you it got so awkward we sat in so much quietness with the music playing and every now and then a random question comes up and an answer then quietness again. This continued for like an hour and i still havent made a move to kiss her or anything. it ended with her saying shes ready to go home so i agree and i take her home and when i drop her off she gives me a hug and said she had fun and we should do it again and i agreed of course but i think she noticed on my face i had looked defeated by the way she looked at mebefore she closed the door. She ended up texting me later asking if i made it home safe which i replied yes with some inside joke from what we were talking about from the date and she told me again she had a nice time tonight and told me goodnight nd sweet dreams, which i replied that i had a good time too and should do it again somtime and she just hearted the message in the morning.i feel like a complete puss right now bcuz i choked and chickened out on multiple situations and dont know if i should still pursue her bcuz of embarassment or if shes even interested in me bcuz she thinks that im not interested in her bcuz she alr thought that in the past. but at the end of the day i still want her. what do you guys think i should do.