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So this girl, I am dating for like 2 months, we are kinda long distance now from each other (she is in one country and I am in another for higher study purpose). So usually, we chat for long times in messenger 'and call sometimes. So what happened yesterday is that, she texted me saying that why I have kept her in 'seen' and then texted ' you made me feel stupid '. She was writing big messages saying if there was any misunderstanding and if I was offended by any of her remarks. Now, what I responded saying if she was accusing me. She then told to drop the issue and move on.

Today I talked to her directly and she told me she was a bit angry cause she was writing this large message regarding different stuffs we usually talk about, I was sometimes not replying but kept them 'seen'. She repeatedly told me to not open messages if I have no time to chat as she understands that I am busy. So then she told me she was a bit offended about why I did not ask her about why she felt stupid and why I focused on if it was an accusation or not. She said she did not mean it as an accusation but a statement.

About me, I multitask a lot. So I might have kept them on seen and did not bother replying or thought that a reply is not needed. Also I am quite introvert and this is the first time in my 27 years of life, I am talking to a girl this much.

So is her behavior a red flag or is it normal? I have difficulty understanding social situations or naturally doing fun stuff with people in general for my introvert nature and I never dated anyone before or generally talked to girls

Submitted September 02, 2022 at 12:08AM

So this girl, I am dating for like 2 months, we are kinda long distance now from each other (she is in one country and I am in another for higher study purpose). So usually, we chat for long times in messenger 'and call sometimes. So what happened yesterday is that, she texted me saying that why I have kept her in 'seen' and then texted ' you made me feel stupid '. She was writing big messages saying if there was any misunderstanding and if I was offended by any of her remarks. Now, what I responded saying if she was accusing me. She then told to drop the issue and move on.Today I talked to her directly and she told me she was a bit angry cause she was writing this large message regarding different stuffs we usually talk about, I was sometimes not replying but kept them 'seen'. She repeatedly told me to not open messages if I have no time to chat as she understands that I am busy. So then she told me she was a bit offended about why I did not ask her about why she felt stupid and why I focused on if it was an accusation or not. She said she did not mean it as an accusation but a statement.About me, I multitask a lot. So I might have kept them on seen and did not bother replying or thought that a reply is not needed. Also I am quite introvert and this is the first time in my 27 years of life, I am talking to a girl this much.So is her behavior a red flag or is it normal? I have difficulty understanding social situations or naturally doing fun stuff with people in general for my introvert nature and I never dated anyone before or generally talked to girls