Why did he just randomly leave?

I met a guy in June 4 walking down the town strip in Nashville. We smiled as we passed eachother. I knew I had to know him immediately but I just kept walking with my friend down the strip and went on with the night. I ended up seeing him again at the end of the night taking a selfie alone, so I dediced to be bold and jump in! He ended up asking me for my number and spent a few hours with my friend and I, bar hopping & dancing. He mentioned he moved here about a month ago. It was his first night exploring the city (he lives further out into the country) The night was coming to an end. We said our goodbyes and we immediately were texting all smitten to one another. He asked me if I wanted to do a slumber party and I wasn’t opposed to having him come over. I wanted to hook up with him. He ended up sleeping over. We talked for hours upon hours and had the most amazing night together. When he left the next afternoon he ended up telling me how great of time he had and asked me out on a date. I agreed. We talked everyday for a week until our date the next Saturday. In between that week of us speaking he mentioned that he was very sorry he didn’t tell me the night we met but he decided to move back home to Seattle before he met me, and didn’t want to waste my time or hurt my heart but still wanted to take me out if I was ok with it. I was ok with spending time together until he moved. He picked me up for our date. We went to a beautiful restaurant and once again had the most amazing night filled with laughs, physical touch, it almost felt like I’ve known him forever. I was ALREADY having the biggest crush on him I could ever imagine. I thought he felt the same way about me too. I could just feel it and sense it. He also kept mentioning how much he liked being around me and just would compliment me & kiss me on the forehead constantly. We went back to my place to spend the night and were deciding if we wanted to go kayaking with my roommate and her guy friend the next day since they had all met the night before and we all had a blast. We were going back & forth about it but we ended up agreeing, paid and booked it. The next morning we all had breakfast that my roommate and I cooked. 10 min before we had to leave to go kayaking he and I were spooning in my bed being intimate (not in a sexual way) were he was massaging me and then eventually asked me to rub his back. I was doing exactly that and we both seem to be enjoying the moment. Him telling me how good it felt and whatnot. Suddenly he turns to me and says “Baby” and I say “yes?” He then proceeds to say “energetically… I think I should go home” gets up and just gets dressed and leaves. I had to walk him down to his car from my apartment since he didn’t know the way. On the walk down I asked him if this was personal because it really did feel like it.. and he Just made up an excuse saying he didn’t want to be tired for work since he lives an hour away from me. I felt hurt and humiliated since he told me in an intimate moment he had to leave, and then ditched me 10 min before our kayak day? My friends were also very confused for me.

I’m not sure what this means? We haven’t spoken since Sunday. I tried asking a few guy friend and they said he might’ve started having feelings for me and immediately had to pull away since he’s moving. Can anyone give me any advice or input? I really wanted to get to know him more and I really thought we instantly connected and felt the same way even though we’ve only know eachother a week. I didn’t mind that he was moving. He has an amazing personality and I would’ve continued to be his friend.

If anyone needs more details I can’t provide them. This post was just getting long. Lol. TIA to anyone who reads this far!

Submitted June 17, 2022 at 12:06AM

I met a guy in June 4 walking down the town strip in Nashville. We smiled as we passed eachother. I knew I had to know him immediately but I just kept walking with my friend down the strip and went on with the night. I ended up seeing him again at the end of the night taking a selfie alone, so I dediced to be bold and jump in! He ended up asking me for my number and spent a few hours with my friend and I, bar hopping & dancing. He mentioned he moved here about a month ago. It was his first night exploring the city (he lives further out into the country) The night was coming to an end. We said our goodbyes and we immediately were texting all smitten to one another. He asked me if I wanted to do a slumber party and I wasn’t opposed to having him come over. I wanted to hook up with him. He ended up sleeping over. We talked for hours upon hours and had the most amazing night together. When he left the next afternoon he ended up telling me how great of time he had and asked me out on a date. I agreed. We talked everyday for a week until our date the next Saturday. In between that week of us speaking he mentioned that he was very sorry he didn’t tell me the night we met but he decided to move back home to Seattle before he met me, and didn’t want to waste my time or hurt my heart but still wanted to take me out if I was ok with it. I was ok with spending time together until he moved. He picked me up for our date. We went to a beautiful restaurant and once again had the most amazing night filled with laughs, physical touch, it almost felt like I’ve known him forever. I was ALREADY having the biggest crush on him I could ever imagine. I thought he felt the same way about me too. I could just feel it and sense it. He also kept mentioning how much he liked being around me and just would compliment me & kiss me on the forehead constantly. We went back to my place to spend the night and were deciding if we wanted to go kayaking with my roommate and her guy friend the next day since they had all met the night before and we all had a blast. We were going back & forth about it but we ended up agreeing, paid and booked it. The next morning we all had breakfast that my roommate and I cooked. 10 min before we had to leave to go kayaking he and I were spooning in my bed being intimate (not in a sexual way) were he was massaging me and then eventually asked me to rub his back. I was doing exactly that and we both seem to be enjoying the moment. Him telling me how good it felt and whatnot. Suddenly he turns to me and says “Baby” and I say “yes?” He then proceeds to say “energetically… I think I should go home” gets up and just gets dressed and leaves. I had to walk him down to his car from my apartment since he didn’t know the way. On the walk down I asked him if this was personal because it really did feel like it.. and he Just made up an excuse saying he didn’t want to be tired for work since he lives an hour away from me. I felt hurt and humiliated since he told me in an intimate moment he had to leave, and then ditched me 10 min before our kayak day? My friends were also very confused for me.I’m not sure what this means? We haven’t spoken since Sunday. I tried asking a few guy friend and they said he might’ve started having feelings for me and immediately had to pull away since he’s moving. Can anyone give me any advice or input? I really wanted to get to know him more and I really thought we instantly connected and felt the same way even though we’ve only know eachother a week. I didn’t mind that he was moving. He has an amazing personality and I would’ve continued to be his friend.If anyone needs more details I can’t provide them. This post was just getting long. Lol. TIA to anyone who reads this far!