Dating at 23 seems difficult

I don't understand why women don't take me seriously im 23 in community college I have my own place I live in a small college town and the girls here don't seem to wanna talk to you unless your in a frat house or drinking at bars I have went to a few bars it's usually dull loney and no girls mostly unless it's a college bar but even then half the girls iv met forget to add my snap chat back or add me wake up next day to unadd me I don't really have much experience im a decent looking guy I would say 6ft 1 i am confident as well I don't have problems approaching women the problem is the women don't seem interested and don't talk to me more then 3 mins or less iv even tried going out with buddy's to make it a little easier but then the bros just take the girls I end up talking to home so i dont understand i want to find a real long term connection with someone but I guess nobody wants to build something real here 😊iv tried dating apps too but they always either too far or end up already taken or empty responses leading to nowhere so I feel hopeless trying to meet others who could be a great potential partner I just wanna get to know people and find that special someone iv even tried joining some discords to find people with same hobbys and connections i dont know what to do at this point iv Is exhausted all my options and i dont know what elseo do any advice would help 😊 iv considered moving to a bigger city to have more fish in the sea



Submitted December 28, 2021 at 01:12AM

I don't understand why women don't take me seriously im 23 in community college I have my own place I live in a small college town and the girls here don't seem to wanna talk to you unless your in a frat house or drinking at bars I have went to a few bars it's usually dull loney and no girls mostly unless it's a college bar but even then half the girls iv met forget to add my snap chat back or add me wake up next day to unadd me I don't really have much experience im a decent looking guy I would say 6ft 1 i am confident as well I don't have problems approaching women the problem is the women don't seem interested and don't talk to me more then 3 mins or less iv even tried going out with buddy's to make it a little easier but then the bros just take the girls I end up talking to home so i dont understand i want to find a real long term connection with someone but I guess nobody wants to build something real here 😊iv tried dating apps too but they always either too far or end up already taken or empty responses leading to nowhere so I feel hopeless trying to meet others who could be a great potential partner I just wanna get to know people and find that special someone iv even tried joining some discords to find people with same hobbys and connections i dont know what to do at this point iv Is exhausted all my options and i dont know what elseo do any advice would help 😊 iv considered moving to a bigger city to have more fish in the sea
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