So here’s my situation…

So just a little back round I’m a 19 year old guy and in college, also am clueless in the whole dating world (never had a girlfriend). I have a small group of close friends and in public I really have never been one to just talk to people. I’ve always been very shy and just reserved I guess would be the way to say it.

So recently I met a really awesome girl in one of my classes the other day and I think she might be in to me, I’m gonna break down everything that happened and someone please tell me if she might like me and how to possibly move this along.

So the very 1st day of class she was the first one that caught my eye, we made eye contact periodically throughout the duration of the class, I didn’t think much of it at first but I’ve slowly developed a crush. Fast forward 3 weeks later we get assigned a project and are given the option to work in pairs, instantly I knew what I had to do but instead of me even approaching her she waved me over to work with her. The whole class we just talked and laughed while doing the assignment, she made little light hearted jokes and she even noticed I didn’t have a chair so she went and got me the one from the other side of our table and put it right next to hers. I feel a really strong connection Just from how easy she was to talk to. I really want a chance to get to know her better but I just don’t know where to go from here. Also I never see her on campus other than when we have this class, which also happens to meet once every 2 weeks. Any advice or second opinions are really appreciated



Submitted October 06, 2021 at 12:14AM

So just a little back round I’m a 19 year old guy and in college, also am clueless in the whole dating world (never had a girlfriend). I have a small group of close friends and in public I really have never been one to just talk to people. I’ve always been very shy and just reserved I guess would be the way to say it.So recently I met a really awesome girl in one of my classes the other day and I think she might be in to me, I’m gonna break down everything that happened and someone please tell me if she might like me and how to possibly move this along.So the very 1st day of class she was the first one that caught my eye, we made eye contact periodically throughout the duration of the class, I didn’t think much of it at first but I’ve slowly developed a crush. Fast forward 3 weeks later we get assigned a project and are given the option to work in pairs, instantly I knew what I had to do but instead of me even approaching her she waved me over to work with her. The whole class we just talked and laughed while doing the assignment, she made little light hearted jokes and she even noticed I didn’t have a chair so she went and got me the one from the other side of our table and put it right next to hers. I feel a really strong connection Just from how easy she was to talk to. I really want a chance to get to know her better but I just don’t know where to go from here. Also I never see her on campus other than when we have this class, which also happens to meet once every 2 weeks. Any advice or second opinions are really appreciated
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