/u/amazing_bitch on why is the community not ready for this talk?

You're right. Because the majority of the lgtbq is not hetero or straight, many decided to make those people at fault of their discrimination or problems even when it's not even a half of the norm the ones who cause trouble, nor the ones who caused it to them in first place. It's all personal.

There is a line that was traced in those terms even when it pushes out other hetero asexual or trans/non binary straight people out of the lgtbq and makes the division between both parts worse. People simply don't care enough to think about that and somehow is ok because you can't care about everyone. But if they really say they fight for equality they should at least acknowledge it. It's an issue for asexual people, for trans people and for everyone in the long term.

If someone is hetero/straight it seems they can't have an opinion or they are somewhat considered the opressors even when a considerable part of the lgtbq hasn't really faced that oppression themselves. Some have, of course, many others hasn't but complain anyway.

Younger generations with understanding parents and nice colleagues. People that had faced the comment of maybe an annoying ass one or two times. But have a reliable and accepting environment within them and don't feel threatened or discriminated among others.

Lgtbq is complicated and a very debatable sociopolitical group for some issues like this. Lgtbq is a group with different people with different experiences and ranges of maturity that's why you'll find people that will treat you badly for being in the group and people that won't.

It's up to you to decide what to do with that





September 24, 2021 at 11:35PM
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