Double standards. The different treatment to men and women for being promiscuous.

The conversation I had today was probably the most interesting one I had in a long time. It was judgement free, no name calling... which is always refreshing.

It was interesting because each one of the men and women I was talking with had very strong views and valid points, and anywhere other than that room, they'd have been grilled as you guys can imagine so I'll just summarise it.

We were talking about sexual liberation and it somehow led to the double standard. One of the ladies said how bs the fact that men are praised and women are shamed for the same thing is. I, as a man, agreed. I don't think they should be shamed.

One of the men also agreed with that but touched on the reason why men are praised (among each other) and women aren't. He said that it is no secret that generally speaking, women have pretty much zero difficulty if what they want is just sex, in which pretty much everyone agreed, and men do know that it is a complete different ball game for them. The praise comes from the struggle and the fact that they've felt that struggle makes some look up to those who successfully get to have sex with many women. On the flip side, although no shame or disrespect should happen, no one "praises" women for it because they know that it isn't something very difficult for them (talking in general).

I understand that many disagree with the concept of sex with whoever whenever but this is mainly geared towards those that are cool with it and want that.

If you want my take, I never shamed or will ever shame a woman for being sexually active with zero commitment. It is sad that society kind of set the bar in a way that ladies get "devalued" by both men and women themselves if they've had many sexual partners. On the other hand, I agree with what the man said of men praising each other. I had an idea but never thought of it or realised how different the experience in the sexual market is until my female colleagues showed me their DMs, male colleagues did the same and it was dry for 90% of the males.

So yeah, that's what they praise each other. Also, this is focused towards men and women that are honest about their intentions and don't lie to get their way.

Thoughts?

Submitted July 30, 2021 at 10:55PM

The conversation I had today was probably the most interesting one I had in a long time. It was judgement free, no name calling... which is always refreshing.It was interesting because each one of the men and women I was talking with had very strong views and valid points, and anywhere other than that room, they'd have been grilled as you guys can imagine so I'll just summarise it.We were talking about sexual liberation and it somehow led to the double standard. One of the ladies said how bs the fact that men are praised and women are shamed for the same thing is. I, as a man, agreed. I don't think they should be shamed.One of the men also agreed with that but touched on the reason why men are praised (among each other) and women aren't. He said that it is no secret that generally speaking, women have pretty much zero difficulty if what they want is just sex, in which pretty much everyone agreed, and men do know that it is a complete different ball game for them. The praise comes from the struggle and the fact that they've felt that struggle makes some look up to those who successfully get to have sex with many women. On the flip side, although no shame or disrespect should happen, no one "praises" women for it because they know that it isn't something very difficult for them (talking in general).I understand that many disagree with the concept of sex with whoever whenever but this is mainly geared towards those that are cool with it and want that.If you want my take, I never shamed or will ever shame a woman for being sexually active with zero commitment. It is sad that society kind of set the bar in a way that ladies get "devalued" by both men and women themselves if they've had many sexual partners. On the other hand, I agree with what the man said of men praising each other. I had an idea but never thought of it or realised how different the experience in the sexual market is until my female colleagues showed me their DMs, male colleagues did the same and it was dry for 90% of the males.So yeah, that's what they praise each other. Also, this is focused towards men and women that are honest about their intentions and don't lie to get their way.Thoughts?