I (24M) have been single all my life. I'm also still a virgin... but I'm attractive. I just choose not to date. Can I live up being single all my life?

I'm a 24 year old asian male (chinese, hispanic and filipino descent). I'm attractive, I look like a kpop star. Lot of girls hit on me... well, not that direct/aggressive. They just mostly stare at me with their puppy eyes and a smile, only few come at me. But all my life I've never dated, kissed or f***ed any girl yet; and I think I won't ever be. It's because most people dissapoint me. Of course, there were girls that I've liked. I've been through the "getting to know" stage with them but that's about it. I never go beyond that point as I often get dissapointed with them the more I get to know them. People have these normalized senseless antics that's just... ugghhh. It's such a turn off for me.

So here's my dilemna: I know that I can handle being single all my life... for now. Statistics shows that people, get depressed later in life after focusing only on their jobs/careers and not having to start a family. And yes, we humans are actually made to procreate, I mean, every organism does. That's even the reason why sex feels good in the first place. It's like the reward given to us by our biological programming to tell us that we're doing something good, but actually, it's just for the sake of our progression as species... the same reason why eating food gives us the feeling of satisfaction after, to keep us healthy and alive.

Submitted November 22, 2020 at 12:11AM

I'm a 24 year old asian male (chinese, hispanic and filipino descent). I'm attractive, I look like a kpop star. Lot of girls hit on me... well, not that direct/aggressive. They just mostly stare at me with their puppy eyes and a smile, only few come at me. But all my life I've never dated, kissed or f***ed any girl yet; and I think I won't ever be. It's because most people dissapoint me. Of course, there were girls that I've liked. I've been through the "getting to know" stage with them but that's about it. I never go beyond that point as I often get dissapointed with them the more I get to know them. People have these normalized senseless antics that's just... ugghhh. It's such a turn off for me.So here's my dilemna: I know that I can handle being single all my life... for now. Statistics shows that people, get depressed later in life after focusing only on their jobs/careers and not having to start a family. And yes, we humans are actually made to procreate, I mean, every organism does. That's even the reason why sex feels good in the first place. It's like the reward given to us by our biological programming to tell us that we're doing something good, but actually, it's just for the sake of our progression as species... the same reason why eating food gives us the feeling of satisfaction after, to keep us healthy and alive.