Am I [20M] reading too deeply into my girlfriend's [20F] snapchat use?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for abut a year and two months. Recently, she has been texting/calling me and snapchatting me increasingly less. We never used to snapchat that much, just keeping up a pointless streak basically. But when she started sending less and less I started to feel weird. I feel like I have crossed a line of privacy and nosiness by doing this, but I have started checking her snap score. For those who don't know, your snap score is a number that keeps track of your activity on the app—it increases by 1 when you open or send a message. I have noticed that during the times when she is not responding to things I send, her snap score continuously increases by increments of two (opening one message and responding) and we are no longer best friends anymore (she now snaps someone else more frequently than she snaps me).

Am I reading too deeply into this and should I not worry about this kind of thing? Should I bring it up to her? I feel like I have been over-investigative.

TL;DR: My girlfriend is now frequently opening someone else's snapchats and responding (and only that person's). She has also been generally messaging and texting/calling me less in the last two weeks or so. Am I overthinking this?

Submitted October 04, 2019 at 11:58PM

My girlfriend and I have been dating for abut a year and two months. Recently, she has been texting/calling me and snapchatting me increasingly less. We never used to snapchat that much, just keeping up a pointless streak basically. But when she started sending less and less I started to feel weird. I feel like I have crossed a line of privacy and nosiness by doing this, but I have started checking her snap score. For those who don't know, your snap score is a number that keeps track of your activity on the app—it increases by 1 when you open or send a message. I have noticed that during the times when she is not responding to things I send, her snap score continuously increases by increments of two (opening one message and responding) and we are no longer best friends anymore (she now snaps someone else more frequently than she snaps me).Am I reading too deeply into this and should I not worry about this kind of thing? Should I bring it up to her? I feel like I have been over-investigative.TL;DR: My girlfriend is now frequently opening someone else's snapchats and responding (and only that person's). She has also been generally messaging and texting/calling me less in the last two weeks or so. Am I overthinking this?