My husband has procrastinated reading my novel for months. Am I right to be upset?

It has always been my dream to finish a novel. After perhaps 10 years of constant trial and failure, I’ve finally managed to finish the first draft. I was so excited about having him read it. He spent months procastinating before reafing two chapters and then haven’t read anything since. He said he likes it so far but just doesn’t have the time (he spends at least 2-3 hours on games and reddit daily). I’ve made it clear that it means a lot to me, and that I’m willing to accept any negative feedback... still, nothing. Perhaps the novel is so horrible, but really even if it is, I still expect him to read it and give me some feedback. I want him to support my endeavors just like I support his. The whole thing is causing me to be very resentful.



Submitted July 21, 2019 at 11:06PM

It has always been my dream to finish a novel. After perhaps 10 years of constant trial and failure, I’ve finally managed to finish the first draft. I was so excited about having him read it. He spent months procastinating before reafing two chapters and then haven’t read anything since. He said he likes it so far but just doesn’t have the time (he spends at least 2-3 hours on games and reddit daily). I’ve made it clear that it means a lot to me, and that I’m willing to accept any negative feedback... still, nothing. Perhaps the novel is so horrible, but really even if it is, I still expect him to read it and give me some feedback. I want him to support my endeavors just like I support his. The whole thing is causing me to be very resentful.
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