Also what you're looking for is celibacy. You can't force yourself to change sexuality. It is impossible. But if you're looking for an easy out for relationship issues (still offensive and disrespectful to bring that here), you are free to swear off relationships at any point. Mocking my community isn't even necessary to do it either. November 09, 2021 at 12:34AM

I (m24) found the courage to open up to a friend about having only one (traumatic )sexual experience where the main problem was the fact that I wasn’t able to put it in because I couldn’t find the right angle. He has the tendency to want to help people ( which I’m grateful af for having him as a friend) and told me that the trick is to put the leg up as close as possible to the body so the vagina will automatically go up. Also is it better to kneel on the bed for optimal penetration? I’m afraid that another bas sexual performance would ruin my mental state for a long time (as the previous did) and refrain me from doing anything Submitted November 09, 2021 at 12:44AM I (m24) found the courage to open up to a friend about having only one (traumatic )sexual experience where the main problem was the fact that I wasn’t able to put it in because I couldn’t find the right angle. He has the tendency to want to help people ( which I’m grateful af for having him as a friend) and told me t...

I(F26) went out with a guy i met recently and things got heated, and I had my period. so with lack of being able to have sex(I have strong periods) he really wanted a blowjob and I am not comfortable with giving that when I dont have feeling for someone. I said that once twice and it took several tries until he stopped asking and pushing. is this a red flag? or it's just the heat of the moment and he really likes blowjobs? haha Submitted November 09, 2021 at 12:46AM I(F26) went out with a guy i met recently and things got heated, and I had my period.so with lack of being able to have sex(I have strong periods) he really wanted a blowjob and I am not comfortable with giving that when I dont have feeling for someone. I said that once twice and it took several tries until he stopped asking and pushing.is this a red flag? or it's just the heat of the moment and he really likes blowjobs? haha

I dont know what happened, when we first started dating we would do it every week. And now we barely even do it every month. I'm not sure what to do. Submitted November 09, 2021 at 12:52AM I dont know what happened, when we first started dating we would do it every week. And now we barely even do it every month. I'm not sure what to do.

Hi there! I’m seeking advice and don’t know where else to turn. I’m new here so hopefully this all follows the guidelines. I’m 23F and have only ever been able to orgasm one way: riding on top of a guy in a very leaned forward angle. Never from masturbation, never from any other sort of stimulation, only penetration in this one specific angle. (I have come close but can never get to that point). This makes me really sad and frustrated because I then feel like I don’t even know my own body, despite having spent lots of time with myself trying to figure it out. I know many other women with the inverse situation who can’t finish from penetration alone, but I really just wish I could get myself off. I know it may be a mental issue as well. The only person I’ve orgasmed with was my ex who I had a LTR with and was very comfortable, yet still never could finish with any other method. I don’t know if it’s worth mentioning, but I am bisexual and even with women I’ve come close but couldn’t ...

So I [M23] Have never had a girlfriend or had sex before but No matter how hard I try to improve on my looks I jist always feel unattractive. Physically im 6ft with redhair, blue eyes, lean build but I have a lot of masculine traits (i.e body hair, broad shoulders, prominent eyebrow ridge, wider jaw, deep voice etc) but I just feel so fucking unattractive. I do try my best to look good and Im also big into skincare but I think now that my next step is surgery, I also have a scar on my forehead (I was shot with an air rifle) which I want removed. I know that Im not trans but in a way I've always been jelous of women on how they can look good compared to us men, Im also jelous of them because they seem to get attention and praised for thier looks where as society tells men that we are ugly. "Men's bodies are gross" , "Men are plain to look at" , "Women are more attractive" I hear women (even straight women) say that shit on reddit all the time an...

Since I was little, I've been unable to think about something but myself. I can't really put myself into someone's else shoes. Maybe that's why I said these things about ugly women in a previous post (me not wanting to date someone ugly while being ugly). I want to change. Submitted November 09, 2021 at 12:09AM Since I was little, I've been unable to think about something but myself. I can't really put myself into someone's else shoes. Maybe that's why I said these things about ugly women in a previous post (me not wanting to date someone ugly while being ugly). I want to change.