She's driving me fucking insane, the thing is I think I like her more than I've probably liked anyone and maybe I'm overreacting to small signs because rejection would absolutely destroy me. So I feel like I'm continuously ruining my own chances. Now that that's out of the way, she says she wants me to teach her guitar, and I asked her "do you really wanna learn or is this a ploy for us to hang out together" to which she says, why can't it both platonically 😛. I asked if she's down to hangout on Saturday she says she has time on Sunday. She invited me to her dorm on Sunday, but I don't know if I wanna go. She clearly is playing games with me but I like her so damn much I never attach myself to any girl this much but something about her when I talked to her in a party just completely messed me up. My anxiety level rises, I cannot concentrate on my work, my roommate told me to play it cool and take time when you text and that's what I'v...

I am all for standards. I think we all should have standards. But there is one thing I recently discovered. I decided to start going for it, but not going for the top girls. Because I am a realistic person I consistently go after 5/6/7 who are not that well known. Honestly, I was not sure if I would have success with this group or not but here is what I learned... A lot of girls of these ages are semi-good looking, not very smart or passionate and at the time had nothing really going for them in life. Yet, they still would not go out to even hang out as friends or try to consistently talk with me. I ran across this one girl recently who literally told me multiple times, she spends all her days at home and has one or two true friends. I thought this girl was kinda cute and interesting so I thought, "I am just gonna go for it and ask to hang out, if she is looking for friends she cannot say no, right?". She technically did not say no. Instead, she ghosted me. Many of you wil...

I’ve been using hinge for a while but curious if it’s worth trying a different app. Female btw Submitted November 06, 2021 at 01:13AM I’ve been using hinge for a while but curious if it’s worth trying a different app. Female btw

coming from a 16 year old and who thinks a lot, for me I see myself alone but not in a saddening way. just in a way of peace and acceptance of who I am and what I’m currently going through. I I’m very independent (probably a trauma response lol) so I don’t see myself getting married or having kids bc I would want to put my career first and personal success. but I hope this helped any of your questions and to ask more if you have any!! November 05, 2021 at 11:29PM

A while ago after I woke up my boyfriend told me that when I was sleeping he started fondling my boobs and was touching my butthole but realized what he was doing was wrong and stopped. I felt uncomfortable when he told me but he made it sound like it wasn’t going to happen again and I appreciated him telling me because otherwise I never would have known. But then the other day I was sleeping and I woke up to him rubbing my clit and touching my boobs and I didn’t want to get up and was shocked so I didn’t move and tried to go back to sleep. He talked about it later and was like you were awake right? And I told him I wasn’t and he lied to my face saying that he had only touched me over my clothes and for only a few seconds. I didn’t want to argue with him because if I told him I was actually awake he would probably try to say that’s why he did it but I was woken up by it. I feel violated but I don’t know if those were the only two times he’s ever done it because if he told me both ti...

My (24M) gf (24F) and I have been together over a year and everything is great. We work well together. However, over the past few months she hasn’t been open to reciprocating oral sex. She used to boast about how much she loved giving head and how good at it she was. Maybe TMI, but during BJs, she would lay down on her stomach and use the friction from the bed to turn her on, which allowed her to finish while giving a BJ. When we have sex, we always make sure to make each other finish. For her, that usually means I perform oral sex on her; for me, that usually means PIV sex. The next part is where the issue lies. For me, oral sex is a huge turn on, and I definitely don’t mind performing it on her either because it turns her on so much. Turning her on turns me on. She says that I turn her on like nobody else before, and it’s because I make an actual effort to make sure she finishes… which is great - she has told me that not many of the other guys she has been with have been great at ...

Had to move back to my country and I'm at my family home. It's hotter than where I was living and also there's way more people here. It's hard to find a moment of privacy but when I do I struggle to properly get in the zone. I got used to having long sessions by myself to properly get excited and relieve some tension rather than quick ones and now it feels like a hurdle just to get into the mood Submitted November 06, 2021 at 12:34AM Had to move back to my country and I'm at my family home. It's hotter than where I was living and also there's way more people here. It's hard to find a moment of privacy but when I do I struggle to properly get in the zone. I got used to having long sessions by myself to properly get excited and relieve some tension rather than quick ones and now it feels like a hurdle just to get into the mood