Bole so nihaal! I was beginning to wonder if I would find another Sikh in this thread. There doesn't seem to be much overlap in either circle. October 11, 2021 at 12:05AM

I dont think the 'its a slur' is the correct aprroach. It doesn't matter what random people say about you, but you do care about your friends opinions. So its not really about it being offensive, its about hurting you, knowing it brothers you and keep doing it regardless. I think your friends are the kind of people who are more focused on being politically correct, than good friends. Making them, not bad people, but shitty friends. October 11, 2021 at 12:05AM

https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Oriented_AroAce October 11, 2021 at 12:03AM

Pan recipromantic October 10, 2021 at 11:55PM

I don’t feel romantic attraction (never get crushes, “fall in love” the way others do) but I would consider entering a romantic relationship if the opportunity came up. Lesbian oriented just means that the attraction I do experience (aesthetic and platonic primarily) draws me more to women than anyone else, making me think a relationship with a woman would be more likely. (The most likely thing to happen though is nothing; being aroace and trying to enter the dating scene is even more of a nightmare than just being ace). October 10, 2021 at 11:54PM

I’ve (29F) been with my boyfriend (26M) for a few months but we’ve been friends for a while. When I first met him he somewhat mentioned a Daddy kink, I’m not talking full on DDLG but he likes being called Daddy in bed. I was a complete idiot at the time and made fun of the whole idea of calling someone who isn’t your dad “Daddy” Obviously since then we’ve grown really close. I’m really falling in love with him and I want to be with him forever. I circled back to the idea and decided I was a complete baffoon to ever make fun of something so intimate. I tried to talk to him about it and he insisted I don’t have to do something that makes me uncomfortable or indulge all his kinks. But I’ve spent time reflecting on it and honestly a word is nothing to me in context of the possibility of being with him forever. I want him to feel adored, sexy and hot as hell and if it turns him on I want to do it Is there anyway I can turn this around? I’m kinda thinking to just make him a dirty video...

I was fat and morbidly obese until recently when I began working out and losing weight. Didn’t have much sex other than one time. Sex Ed was also don’t do it, abstinence or wear a condom if you are. Was getting a blowjob the other day and I got curious. Submitted October 11, 2021 at 12:41AM I was fat and morbidly obese until recently when I began working out and losing weight. Didn’t have much sex other than one time. Sex Ed was also don’t do it, abstinence or wear a condom if you are.Was getting a blowjob the other day and I got curious.