I’ve been recently struggling and was just looking for some support I guess. I lost my virginity less than 2 years ago (29F) and have already had sex with 12 people. Out of that only one was a relationship, and 7 one night stands. Normally Im okay with doing whatever I want with my body. But I think recently the social stigma is really getting to me. Especially Bc I find in the subreddit so many say they could never have a ons or are confused how people do it. So I don’t really know how to view things right now and im just feeling a little ashamed or regretful. Submitted September 14, 2021 at 12:41AM I’ve been recently struggling and was just looking for some support I guess. I lost my virginity less than 2 years ago (29F) and have already had sex with 12 people. Out of that only one was a relationship, and 7 one night stands. Normally Im okay with doing whatever I want with my body. But I think recently the social stigma is really getting to me. Especially Bc I find in the subr...

So, im a male (25) and ive had some dating partners/girlfriends (4-5 not much, usually 1 to 2yrs relationships) First of all, people consider me as "above avarage looking" im blondie, green eyes 1.80m. And all the previous girls ive been with told me so. Personaly i see myself as avarage but anyway... Ive also been told i was pretty good in bed (and very good in oral sex) and honeslty i rly love to give girls oral sex (and receive ofc) idk it just turns me on hearing them moan and shaking, and depending on the girl, it can taste pretty good too. However, i havent been with anyone in the past 1.5years, its like i lost the touch with dating reality, i jusy cant put up the effort anymore, maybe stress from university, work, family, money idk. Ive been alone for some time now and sometimes i rly wish i could just get laid with any random girl, but i dont have the will to make it happen. What rly kills me is that i have plenty of chances to do so, i talk to new girls, i go out...

On most occasions, when the women is riding missionary on top obviously her breasts are bouncing. I’ll be massaging them, cupping them and sucking ect. When I stop, she starts holding them. I find this largely sexy asf! I view it as an invite to hold them some more. But why do women do this? Did I not stimulate her enough or does she like fondling herself also? Submitted September 14, 2021 at 12:46AM On most occasions, when the women is riding missionary on top obviously her breasts are bouncing. I’ll be massaging them, cupping them and sucking ect. When I stop, she starts holding them. I find this largely sexy asf! I view it as an invite to hold them some more. But why do women do this? Did I not stimulate her enough or does she like fondling herself also?

So I’ve spent the last two weeks preparing to get pegged and have thoroughly enjoyed it. The two sizes butt plugs I have feel great, no pain, and a dildo (5.5 insertable 1.25” diameter) besides a very mild (I can’t stress enough how mild) discomfort the first inch it enters my butt after that it’s nice! Still feels a little weird like I gotta fart while it’s in but I attribute that to something going the wrong way down a one way street so to speak. That’s all the background I’ve got about what I’m feeling, here’s my issue: The dildo feels like there’s some resistance while I ride, penetrate myself, whatever with it. It doesn’t hurt, but I imagined it would be much smoother. I have a lube injector and I’d say I end up injecting 20-30 mL of lube and then whatever is on the toy before it goes in. I don’t think it’s drying up cause when I’m done plenty of it ends up coming out after. Is it possible I need more lube? I can’t imagine I’d need more than 30 mL for just a few minutes of play....

Im 28, male Im balding a lot and a decided use some George Constanza (Seinfeld) or Prince William hairstyle. Its no hair on top and hair on the sides and back I just went to the mall and i think some girl laughed of my hair cause is weird. I dont have the money for a hair piece or hair transplant for now unfortunately. Im so tired of shaving everything, buzzcuts etc So would you girls date someone 28 yo with that hairstyle that looks a lot older? Thanks in advance! Submitted September 14, 2021 at 12:06AM Im 28, maleIm balding a lot and a decided use some George Constanza (Seinfeld) or Prince William hairstyle. Its no hair on top and hair on the sides and backI just went to the mall and i think some girl laughed of my hair cause is weird. I dont have the money for a hair piece or hair transplant for now unfortunately.Im so tired of shaving everything, buzzcuts etcSo would you girls date someone 28 yo with that hairstyle that looks a lot older?Thanks in advance!

Hello, so I met this guy online about 2 months ago. I’m 28 and he’s 30. We had a phone conversation within the first evening and instantly agreed to go on a date. The date was so fun and the connection was there so we continued to see each other…about a date a week. The planning was coming from his side because his work was demanding, but in between we chatted on the phone etc. The last time we saw each other was about a week and a half ago. We were intimate and he even kept my under garments. Again, a great night. The next day I didn’t hear from him for a few days and when I reached out we started chatting again. Everything was fine but then I blatantly asked him “are we ever going to see each other again etc”. His response was that he wasn’t feeling well and he’s overloaded to the max with work. My response was feel better and left it at that. He continued to contact me after that and the next few days. I liked that, but I’m also at a point where it’s like if we’re not meeting in p...

Hi! I’m (19m) freshman in college, just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and to put it simply i don’t know how to flirt or approach people i find attractive without feeling guilty. I feel like ALOT of women get unwanted attention and it ruins there day or whatever and i just don’t want to be that, i hate that honestly. I was just wondering if women care if someone they don’t find attractive comes up to them. And what would i say? Would compliments about their looks be coming off to strong? Or just asking for their number and name enough? Idk, dating apps are soo depressing and degrading for me and it might be because i put my standards so high since i was with someone for so long who i think i can’t find someone even half as attractive. I can go to bars and chat but i even find that hard and the only way i do is if i wait in line and talk so it seems casual and not forced. Any advice? Maybe i should stop being a weirdo and just ask. I just don’t know where would it even be accep...