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Make up sex without the fight??

So I was thinking the other day how make up sex has probably been some of the best sex of my life. However, I DO NOT want to go back to what caused the make up sex just for the rush. So I wondered how do you get that energy without the fight? I guess my closest thing that I can think of is when we go on vacation. When I am not in my element and away from everything, everyone and no stress it's like I'm a new person. I so look forward to it because I know that we will A LOT of really great sex. For example, I'm usually more flexible, I dress a bit sexier and I drink way more alcohol than I usually do. LOL. One time we were going to dinner and I have this jacket that I wear a tank top under. My hubby asked me to skip the tank and just wear the jacket. So I did. The jacket was zipped a bit at the bottom but unzipped down to my navel. This is the way he wanted and waaaaaayyyyy sexier than I would ever dress but I went with it because why not? I didn't know anyone there. He...

Wife upset after 1 week of no sex

My wife and I are in our mid 30s with a 2.5 year old. I am a shift worker (meaning I work days and nights alternating) and she is a stay at home mom. Tonight, as I was laying down with her to help her sleep and I would stay up doing laundry and cleaning, she got upset that it has been exactly 1 week since we last had sex and this is unacceptable. 1 week is our average but sometimes up to 2 weeks. I'm on nights now so it just makes it a bit more difficult. She suddenly thinks I'm talking to someone else while I'm on nights just cause we haven't had sex in a week. What can I do? Submitted July 07, 2021 at 01:23AM My wife and I are in our mid 30s with a 2.5 year old. I am a shift worker (meaning I work days and nights alternating) and she is a stay at home mom. Tonight, as I was laying down with her to help her sleep and I would stay up doing laundry and cleaning, she got upset that it has been exactly 1 week since we last had sex and this is unacceptable. 1 week is...

I feel like giving up on sex because of my thin penis

Im 6.5 inches long and 4.3/4.25 inches in girth Obviously girth matters more to women so yeah i have a small penis Submitted July 07, 2021 at 01:25AM Im 6.5 inches long and 4.3/4.25 inches in girthObviously girth matters more to women so yeah i have a small penis

/u/lunarLegion on Girlfriend might be asexual, how can we make this work?

I mean I don't have much in the way of personal experience, as I'm in a polyamorous relationship with just ace people, but honestly the best advice I can give is that the two of you know each other and yourselves best. If she's comfortable with certain sexual things and you're satisfied with it, that's enough. Otherwise, you'll need to talk with one another to figure out exactly what your needs and boundaries are. Other people will probably have better advice then me because they may have addressed this problem themselves. Regardless, I hope you guys can figure something out, and remember that communication is always key. July 06, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/tobydg3 on Uh

No, you were smart July 06, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/Throttle_Kitty on I wish people understood demisexuality. It took me three years to have sex with my boyfriend.

I mean, "demi" litterally means half, and there's basically two halves to being asexual. I think maybe there is a more specific term for what you're describing, but technically speaking, that is also "half" asexual. Just the other half that isn't normally associated with being demi... lol It's probably like how, pansexual people (like myself) are technically bisexual, but pansexual is a more specific, and thus better word to describe how we feel. July 06, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/Psychological-Leek-6 on I’m…confused?

Thank you so much!! July 06, 2021 at 11:30PM