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Sexual problems in long-term relationship.

TL;DR - What should I do about sexual incompatibility within marriage? Anybody want to be my sex therapist? My husband and I (F) have been together for about 6 years. We had a relatively healthy, but imperfect, sex life in the beginning, but I had always assumed it would improve. It hasn't. In fact it's gotten a lot worse the last couple years. I'm afraid that we're just sexually incompatible and I don't know what to do. I used to love giving blowjobs. But he works hard and doesn't bathe as often as I feel is necessary, and quite frankly he gets funky down there. We've discussed this many times at length and for a while, he did absolutely nothing about it. Like for years. So the frequency of the blowjobs widdled down to nothing. He was pouty about it but eventually he started washing more. I gave occasional blowjobs during that time, but years of gross smells made me hesitant. And I am making an assumption here but I believe he stopped washing often ...

I [19F] masturbate "weirdly"

I started masturbating from a pretty young age so I think I developed it throughout the years. But basically I have to cross my legs when I masturbate, like criss-cross applesauce lol. I also can't touch my clit directly when I do cuz it's so sensitive. It's embarrassing doing it infront of my bf and it makes it difficult for him to make me cum. It's almost like I have "death grip" except for a girl. Do I have to train myself to masturbate differently? Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:37AM I started masturbating from a pretty young age so I think I developed it throughout the years. But basically I have to cross my legs when I masturbate, like criss-cross applesauce lol. I also can't touch my clit directly when I do cuz it's so sensitive. It's embarrassing doing it infront of my bf and it makes it difficult for him to make me cum. It's almost like I have "death grip" except for a girl. Do I have to train myself to masturbate diff...

A little help with messaging/texting OLD matches.

So I've got 2 lady's I've been messaging that I contacted through online dating both seem very nice. I've been messaging both for about a week and I've asked both to meet but never got a definite answer. The one seems very cool and sends great coversational messages the other just a sentence or two but keeps sending messages. Is their anything you think I should ask the "quiet" on to get a better response or engage more? Every time I think she may not be interested, I'll get another message and oddly we seem to have things in common, but no real in depth responses. Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:26PM So I've got 2 lady's I've been messaging that I contacted through online dating both seem very nice. I've been messaging both for about a week and I've asked both to meet but never got a definite answer. The one seems very cool and sends great coversational messages the other just a sentence or two but keeps sending messages. Is ...

She wants me to meet her friends on a 3rd date? Did I make a good decision?

Hey guys, I need advice, as I'm new to dating! Well long story short, I met a girl and we hit it off for the first 2 dates. But I noticed she seems flakey and it's been over a month since we've set another date. She cancelled on me once already, and never sets definite plans. But counters a different day to meet right away. So, this week she offered to meet with her friends at a night fire. Sounds like fun, but i feel like this is a test for her friends to meet me? Anyways, I told her that I would prefer to meet 1-on-1, just to get to know each other better. But at the same time, I feel like I'm missing out.. since it would be fun to go out and meet/get to know her friends. I don't like going back on my word, as it's a bit indecisive. Did I make the right decision not to meet her friends? Would it be wrong if I were to change my decision and meet with her and her friends? Thanks! Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:29PM Hey guys,I need advice, as I'm...

I (20M) just met a girl (20F) briefly in college and wanted to ask her if she wanted to hang out more this summer. Is this alright?

So I just met a girl in my major in a lab area (she helps students get electrical parts). We talked briefly and we found out we will be working at internships close by to each other this summer. I only talked to her briefly about our past internships and other stuff for maybe about 5 minutes last week and then today. Would it be appropriate to ask if she wanted to hang out this summer and exchange numbers even though we only spoke for maybe 10 minutes total? Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:36PM So I just met a girl in my major in a lab area (she helps students get electrical parts). We talked briefly and we found out we will be working at internships close by to each other this summer.I only talked to her briefly about our past internships and other stuff for maybe about 5 minutes last week and then today.Would it be appropriate to ask if she wanted to hang out this summer and exchange numbers even though we only spoke for maybe 10 minutes total?

I'm confused

There's this girl (woman I suppose) I know who says almost all guys are pervs. I am a straight guy and I am confused because she posts a ton of revealing pictures on IG. Is she looking for attention? To be honest I don't want to make assumptions but I want to know if I'm onto something or if its something else. Thanks! Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:41PM There's this girl (woman I suppose) I know who says almost all guys are pervs. I am a straight guy and I am confused because she posts a ton of revealing pictures on IG. Is she looking for attention? To be honest I don't want to make assumptions but I want to know if I'm onto something or if its something else. Thanks!

Is this girl catfishing?

She claims on the app she's a big gamer girl, and is into a lot of other geeky male things (seems too good to be true). Half of her photos are very attractive (way more attractive than what you'd imagine a gamer girl to be), but the other half are basically stupid memes (seems like she couldn't find enough photos to fill the dating profile). Asked her to video call, and she refused to do video call, and then got really defensive about it. Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:57PM She claims on the app she's a big gamer girl, and is into a lot of other geeky male things (seems too good to be true). Half of her photos are very attractive (way more attractive than what you'd imagine a gamer girl to be), but the other half are basically stupid memes (seems like she couldn't find enough photos to fill the dating profile). Asked her to video call, and she refused to do video call, and then got really defensive about it.