Hello all! Just a quick question. So during quarantine you can't really meet new girls at a bar (which I prefer more), so I tried Tinder. Chatted with a girl and then we had couple of dates at her place. Just chatting and we kissed on the second date. She then said:" I don't think we have the chemistry." And I was like "No problem, I have no expectations and just want to meet new people and have a good time." Fastforward to now she is blowing up my phone nearly daily and asking when we are going to meet again. Tomorrow we are going to a restaurant and back to her place. I'm just curious, why the sudden turnaround from " I don't think I like you and we have future" to this? Explain? Submitted January 21, 2021 at 11:52PM Hello all!Just a quick question. So during quarantine you can't really meet new girls at a bar (which I prefer more), so I tried Tinder. Chatted with a girl and then we had couple of dates at her place. Just cha...

I guess the title says it all? I (M25) can get a lot of matches on tinder, but don't even know how to begin a conversation there. Honestly in a club pre-covid, same. Went on a date, totally flopped. Said she had to go home early. Had also let slipped she had been going on lots of tinder dates, and then unmatched me. Guess I've got no game. I was raised very polite and religious, and even though I'm not anymore, I don't even know how to be flirty or be anything other than the 'nice guy' that's just not an attractive personality. Based on the very few girls I have dated, I know if we hooked up they would come back for more. I recently got out of a serious relationship that lasted a very long time, and I just want to have some fun. Girls, what do you look for? Guys, what works for you? Submitted January 21, 2021 at 11:52PM I guess the title says it all? I (M25) can get a lot of matches on tinder, but don't even know how to begin a conversation t...

So this is quite a funny one, I(m23) matched this girl(f20) in about October and quickly got her number. For some reason we started playing iMessage games and that’s literally all we do. For about 3 months now either one of us sends and game and we play, make some small talk and that’s it. It’s pretty jokes tbh. I like the dynamic. I’m wondering how I can actually get this girl to hang out or something, anything to break this chain, not that I don’t like it but you know maybe it could be something more. Any thoughts ? Submitted January 21, 2021 at 11:55PM So this is quite a funny one, I(m23) matched this girl(f20) in about October and quickly got her number. For some reason we started playing iMessage games and that’s literally all we do. For about 3 months now either one of us sends and game and we play, make some small talk and that’s it. It’s pretty jokes tbh. I like the dynamic.I’m wondering how I can actually get this girl to hang out or something, anything to break this c...

Hi all, Recently I’ve been chatting to a girl and we instantly hit it off. Always making plans and hanging out. Unfortunately she has to move away in a few weeks and we’ve known this for a month so have kept it as casual as we both can. Everything seemed fine to me until all of a sudden she sends me a message after a fantastic weekend together essentially saying I can’t do this anymore, can we still be friends. People who have gone through similar situations: is she afraid of catching feelings and being hurt herself or have I just been used by her to fulfill her needs? Submitted January 21, 2021 at 11:55PM Hi all, Recently I’ve been chatting to a girl and we instantly hit it off. Always making plans and hanging out. Unfortunately she has to move away in a few weeks and we’ve known this for a month so have kept it as casual as we both can. Everything seemed fine to me until all of a sudden she sends me a message after a fantastic weekend together essentially saying I can’t do thi...

So the backstory, back in March or so we had a shoplifter at the the store that I work at. One of the responding cops happened to be a really cute new rookie that had came in the store a few nights earlier that I thought cute then as well (I didnt know he was a cop when I first saw him) My manager ended up asking his sheriff if he was single for me a few nights later leaving me pretty embarrassed. We ended up becoming friends on Facebook (I added him because why not lol) and despite never talking matched on Tinder a few months later. Back in September, we hung out and went on a walk on the trails at my college. After that we did not talk very often and had normal conversatios when he came in the store sometimes but nothing more. Suddenly last Friday he texted me. We talked for a bit and ended up planning to hangout the next day at his house. I had an idea that he wanted to hookup because of how out of the blue it was and initially I told myself I wouldn't do it. Also, prior to th...

How do you know when it’s time to move on and stop going for a girl, and what’s the best way to move on? Some personal context: I went on a few dates with this girl I really liked, and I got the impression that she liked me. Things were going super well for the few weeks we were talking, but something happened where she got really, really upset at me and now the relationship isn’t the same (no, wasn’t talking to other girls). She doesn’t talk to me anymore and I feel really bad about it because I feel like I ruined a start of a good relationship. What do I do? Submitted January 22, 2021 at 12:14AM How do you know when it’s time to move on and stop going for a girl, and what’s the best way to move on?Some personal context: I went on a few dates with this girl I really liked, and I got the impression that she liked me. Things were going super well for the few weeks we were talking, but something happened where she got really, really upset at me and now the relationship isn’t the...

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