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flirting then ghosting?

so i knew this guy when i was in another relationship we were only friends even tho he said he was interested before i told him that i was taken, anyway now i’ve ended that relationship like 4 months ago we’ve been having some heavy flirting going on lately but it’s like we flirt and he like ghosts me for like a week, than do it again and ghosts again he never took the next step and never tried to get to know me more and i really don’t want to be the one who initiates cuz i feel like i am annoying cuz like if he wants to he would yk?, he never asked for something like nudes n stuff so it’s not like he’s getting something from this i just wanna know why is he doing this? is he waiting for me to take the first step? or is he not interested? but why would he flirt with me repeatedly, im thinking of dropping the whole thing Submitted August 19, 2020 at 11:57PM so i knew this guy when i was in another relationship we were only friends even tho he said he was interested before i told ...

What do you guys think this answer means?

I (23f) kinda shot my shot with one of my friends (22m) that I really, really like yesterday. I asked him if dating was an option for us and he said he’d never really thought about it because I live on the other side of the country from him. But at the same time he couldn’t say no because “you never know what the future holds” and we’ll see what happens. Fast forward to today, after a few days of thinking it over, I’m 99% certain I’m going to be moving in with a mutual friend of ours that lives near him soon. I just need to sort out the logistics of it all. Any advice on what his non answer means? Submitted August 20, 2020 at 12:10AM I (23f) kinda shot my shot with one of my friends (22m) that I really, really like yesterday. I asked him if dating was an option for us and he said he’d never really thought about it because I live on the other side of the country from him. But at the same time he couldn’t say no because “you never know what the future holds” and we’ll see what h...

How do u keep the interest going after the beginning?

I have had a problem in this pandemic. I'm M(16) and I've had a problem where i ask a girl out and she says something along the lines of; i can't because of the rona and my question is, assuming that they are actually interested and they aren't just making an excuse, how do I keep the feelings and all that going so that when the pandemic ends I can ask her out? Any suggestions? Submitted August 20, 2020 at 12:12AM I have had a problem in this pandemic. I'm M(16) and I've had a problem where i ask a girl out and she says something along the lines of; i can't because of the rona and my question is, assuming that they are actually interested and they aren't just making an excuse, how do I keep the feelings and all that going so that when the pandemic ends I can ask her out? Any suggestions?

I need help

So I’m a 19M in University who’s been talking/ hanging out with this 18F. We first meet like a year ago in High School and we were kinda friends for a while then after High school we just stopped talking. Then randomly I receive a message from her saying she wants to meet up. So I meet up with her and we talk about life/ school. The next day she invites me to something again. Then the next day we watch a movie at her dorm and I didn’t know if I should make a move or not. Anyway I was wondering if she is actually in to me or does she just want a friend in college? Submitted August 20, 2020 at 12:13AM So I’m a 19M in University who’s been talking/ hanging out with this 18F. We first meet like a year ago in High School and we were kinda friends for a while then after High school we just stopped talking. Then randomly I receive a message from her saying she wants to meet up. So I meet up with her and we talk about life/ school. The next day she invites me to something again. Then th...

Giving up on an old rejection

To begin, I'm new to Reddit, so I apologize if this is the wrong place for this question. With that said, I grow attached too easily to people without even having been in a relationship. I'm 27M for the record, and a specific example of this is a young woman I met at work who I immediately became interested in soon after she arrived. It took me forever, but I did finally express that I was interested verbally (attracted I think was the exact word I used), but I was soundly rejected without consideration. This part isn't super unexpected as I have never been in a relationship, and am near giving up on the prospect of finding anyone. However, for some reason, I just cannot forget about her: we still work in the same general office, and while I don't see her as much as I used to (we used to sit next to each other), I still get some flutters when she passes. I guess my question is do any of you have advice on how to forget about someone and move on? And furthermore, may...

/u/smiles5ever on Saw someone make an ace bee on here a while ago! Felt inspired and decided to make my own. A little derpy in the face, but it adds all the more love. Proud that my first ace colored object is something I made with my own hands ☺️

No prob! Hope I can see it one day :D August 20, 2020 at 12:05AM

/u/MySucculentDied on I just found out some information that shocked me

I’d say 15 is still pretty normal, but then again I literally have no personal experience to go off of, except for my first romantic crush (I’m asexual sooo). August 20, 2020 at 12:05AM