My wife (29F) and I (32M) have been married for 5 years. We have a wonderful marriage. We communicate really well, are extremely supportive of each other, share responsibilities, and genuinely enjoy each other's company. Right now, she is working from home full-time, and I am down to part-time hours, but also working from home. Despite being around each other almost non-stop, we are as close as ever and have had no conflicts or stresses on our relationship. The one area which has been a concern for years, though, is our sex life. We used to have sex a few times a week, which was fantastic. I knew that sex might taper off a bit as time went on, but I wasn't prepared for what has happened. We now have sex no more than twice a month, sometimes only once a month. I try to initiate much more often, but she always shoots me down. We never have sex on weeknights, only weekends. She never initiates, never tries to seduce me, never makes any attempt at being sexy. When we do have sex,...

So one day I got a message from someone I have never met before she told me she wanted to trade nudes keep in mind this was my first time ever sending nudes so at first I was scared so I decided to talk to her and get to know her we talked for hours and hours we talked about everything and anything by the time we were done talking she had already sent me two pics and one video so I thought I had to send her stuff it was at night I was laying in bed so I got up and sent her a lot of pics she rated my face and my dick a 8-9 she texted me super fast she made me actually think she liked me I didn’t think I could catch feelings just from nudes & texting but somehow I did I thought about her so much she told me she wouldn’t stop texting me she texted me every morning right when she woke up she made me feel like I meant something to her and then one day actually I think it was yesterday or two days ago she stopped texting me and she blocked me 💔💔💔 I felt and still do feel hurt broken ...

I'm a virgin and I've heard people on the internet say that sex without a condom feels awesome and with a condom it's not as incredible. Is it still really good tho? Cause when I will have sex with my gf I will obviously use a condom. Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:21AM I'm a virgin and I've heard people on the internet say that sex without a condom feels awesome and with a condom it's not as incredible. Is it still really good tho? Cause when I will have sex with my gf I will obviously use a condom.

long story short, im 25(f), lost my virginity in nov 2019 (hurt like hell, had to stop, cried, tried again, less sucky but wasn’t great), then had sex again in february, dude was kinda thick...dont remember it hurting but i did bleed abit after. I’m jus worried that if i have sex again its always gonna be this tightness there and its kinda stressing me out. sometimes its even uncomfortable to finger myself and i hate it. would love some advice! thanks in advance! Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:23AM long story short, im 25(f), lost my virginity in nov 2019 (hurt like hell, had to stop, cried, tried again, less sucky but wasn’t great), then had sex again in february, dude was kinda thick...dont remember it hurting but i did bleed abit after. I’m jus worried that if i have sex again its always gonna be this tightness there and its kinda stressing me out. sometimes its even uncomfortable to finger myself and i hate it. would love some advice! thanks in advance!

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Every time I've asked my bf a fantasy of his, it's always something about me being dominant. Not like whips and chains, but me being on top, taking charge, etc. But I'm more naturally submissive. It doesn't turn me on to be dominant at all. I prefer men to tend to take charge sexually, but he's much more passive. One time when we were engaged in foreplay, he even asked me, "what do you want me to do?" That's honestly one of the biggest turn offs to me, when a guy asks for instructions even when he knows the things I like. It makes me want to just roll over and turn on the tv. It makes getting turned on for me difficult. It doesn't help that his dick is huge; I REALLY need to be wet for him to even get in. Once we get going, we have great sex even though he doesn't do a lot of the things I like. It's getting turned on that takes work. I've told him clearly what I want but he just barely does those things. I even reminded him recently ...

I've been grinding on pillows ever since I was a child. I find that I get enjoyment in the beginning, but over time my clit becomes less sensitive. Does this mean that I am in no way of achieving orgasm? Should I just give up, and try something else or should I keep trying even though I cannot feel anything? This is coming from a girl who is on a mission to have her first orgasm btw. Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:29AM I've been grinding on pillows ever since I was a child. I find that I get enjoyment in the beginning, but over time my clit becomes less sensitive.Does this mean that I am in no way of achieving orgasm? Should I just give up, and try something else or should I keep trying even though I cannot feel anything?This is coming from a girl who is on a mission to have her first orgasm btw.