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My ex wants to be friends...

Me (18M) and my ex gf (18F) broke up a month ago because of college, I wanted to at least try while she wasn't willing to because she was scared and thinks she can't commit. We're going to colleges not even 30 minutes away. We dated for over a year and a half and she kept telling me about her plans for us to be together in college and how excited she was because we would be so close she was very loving and clingy you can tell she was basically obsessed with me. That all changed out of nowhere and she left me. After the breakup she asked to remain friends but I told her i needed at least a month before we can talk again during and after the breakup she acted like a completely different person. She has been very petty and cold with social media and posting stories and photos while i have been silent. She has reached out to me and mutual friends asking how i'm feeling multiple times and i've either ignored or gave her 1 word answers. She's been acting as if i brok...

She never texts first

So I (23m) met this girl (28f) on a dating app some time ago. We used to text quite a bit. (basically one long conversation over weeks). I asked her for a coffee date and afterwards she wanted us to exchange numbers (only been texting through the app before). Now our texting was more like a conversation over a day (saying good night at the end and not texting for some days afterwards) These conversations were always started by me. Is her not texting me first a sign of lacking interest? Should I text her again or just let it be? (by the way it's almost a month since our last conversations) Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:13AM So I (23m) met this girl (28f) on a dating app some time ago. We used to text quite a bit. (basically one long conversation over weeks). I asked her for a coffee date and afterwards she wanted us to exchange numbers (only been texting through the app before).Now our texting was more like a conversation over a day (saying good night at the end and not t...

Just because they want to fuck you, doesn’t mean they want to spend the rest of their lives with you.

Sex is not something you could trade with marriage or loyalty, so make sure you’re ready for the risks and consequences before you agree to sleep with someone. Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:13AM Sex is not something you could trade with marriage or loyalty, so make sure you’re ready for the risks and consequences before you agree to sleep with someone.

Does it make sense that I have a much harder time cumming if in a sitting leaned over position during mutual masturbation? [M]

i recently got into mutual masturbating with my gf as an alternative to sex sometimes and its pretty good but if we do it sitting together with her legs over mine sort of scissoring almost I take forever to cum and sometimes don't. does this make sense as a limitation? Recently I've been leaning back from this position almost laying down and having more success. When I masturbate alone I'm always laying down so it may be that I'm just not used to sitting and masturbating. Anyway not sure if anyone can relate but I dont have this problem in any other position so thought there was something to it. Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:21PM i recently got into mutual masturbating with my gf as an alternative to sex sometimes and its pretty good but if we do it sitting together with her legs over mine sort of scissoring almost I take forever to cum and sometimes don't. does this make sense as a limitation? Recently I've been leaning back from this position almost la...

Any Tips on Giving your BF a virtual strip tease?

Men, what moves do you like to see when your partner gives a striptease? What gets you going? Women, are you able to describe moves that you do that you know your BF is into? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:23PM Men, what moves do you like to see when your partner gives a striptease? What gets you going? Women, are you able to describe moves that you do that you know your BF is into?

My boyfriend hardly orgasms having sex with me - Maybe I'm just not sexual at all?

Okay, so this is kind of embarrassing to me (so, sorry about the throwaway) but I'm not sure if I'm normal or that I work properly. Also really sorry if this just seems like a pity party and a bit miserable. For context, I'm a 22 year old female. And sorry it's so long too. When I was 18 I got with a guy. Let's call him Jim. I met Jim at school and we really got along and I loved him (and still love him so much). When we first met I was about 3 stone lighter. I lost my virginity with him and he is the only man I've ever slept with or even spoken sexually to, even to this day. Throughout some of our relationship we spent some weeks and sometimes months not seeing eachother as I went to university, and as our relationship progressed our time together was limited as his mother wasn't very kind to me or my family. Anyway, when me and Jim did see each other though, we often had sex. However, while Jim was able to make me orgasm, he often took a long time to or...

I have no refractory period but I’m into orgasm denial. Is this a waste? Would love some genuine advice from the ladies!

I (32m) have been blessed with having no refractory period and a sky-high sex drive. Sometimes if I’m REALLY excited I can cum 6 times in one session with no downtime. I know girls love the uniqueness of this and the fact that they turn me on so much! Ironically I’m also very into orgasm denial and can go several weeks having PIV sex with no orgasm! But I feel like this is a waste in the circumstances lol. Ladies, how can I balance these two aspects of myself, to get the most out of my situation for both me and my partner? Maybe there’s a way to incorporate both elements in one session? Would appreciate hearing your thoughts. Some comments other than “humblebrag” would be awesome! Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:29PM I (32m) have been blessed with having no refractory period and a sky-high sex drive. Sometimes if I’m REALLY excited I can cum 6 times in one session with no downtime. I know girls love the uniqueness of this and the fact that they turn me on so much!Ironically I’...