Sex such a beautiful thing yet can be such a taboo topic. Some are embarrassed to talk about it while some can't wait to get down to the juicy bits. So let's get to story time, growing up i felt like sex was just something to do like chores in a relationship i enjoyed it to an extent, even tho I looked at it in that way i enjoyed writing erotic stories and spent my time on the net just reading up about sex, different positions,kegel,role play,etc . I wasn't big into porn either don't get me wrong there's some good porn out there but i prefer to create my own stage, i had my own ideas of what i wanted and just imaging how i wanted to feel, so masturbating was the best sexual experience for me, i know some say once you get yourself accustom to masturbating it's hard for someone else to compete with, to me that wasn't the case cause there wasn't any contenders. Seems all guys wanted was to just cum and to hell with your vagina, yes most time disappointing...

I have zero experience with being top, how do i make it enjoyable for him? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 11:04PM I have zero experience with being top, how do i make it enjoyable for him?

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. About 5 months ago, she had some major life events happen (being intentionally vague because she is on reddit) and started being really depressed. She often doesn't want to leave the house and never wants to go out and do the things I want to do. She always says she's afraid of being a burden, and I'm starting to feel like she is. On top of that, she has started to gain a lot of weight too, and doesn't look the way she did when we started dating. Obviously, this has gotten in the way of our sex life and I have a hard time feeling aroused and connected. How do we rekindle the spark? She is seeing a therapist for her depression but it doesn't seem to really have helped. Edit: before this we had a really good sex life and would have sex at least every other day if not more. She's always been kind of on the heavier/curvier side and we were ready to jump each other's bones on a moment's not...

Back in October I started experimenting with guys since I had been curious for a long time. I liked it so I kept doing it and I've been with quite a few guys at this point. The problem is that during sex I almost always struggle with getting and maintaining an erection which has been a bit annoying. I looked up causes for erectile dysfunction online and since I'm not of high age, don't smoke, don't take any medicine and I'm not fat but it does say it could be a mental problem. ​ I've never had penetrative sex with girls so I have a hard time saying if its's specific to guys or not but should I be worried that I'm only fooling myself about being bi? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 11:37PM Back in October I started experimenting with guys since I had been curious for a long time. I liked it so I kept doing it and I've been with quite a few guys at this point. The problem is that during sex I almost always struggle with getting and maintaining an...

We've been official for 20 months, sexually active for about 3/4 of that, we were both awkward about sex at the start cause my gf is on the asexual spectrum and I'm a trans guy. I know I'm my gfs first partner, sexual or otherwise, I've had a couple before but not much (we're only 20, anyways). We do sex stuff but we never really... talk about it? To me, that would just feel really really uncomfortable. It's always been consensual, in the moment theres always checking if we're okay etc and if not we stop, but that's not really "verbal" I always see things online along the lines of "if you cant talk about having sex you're not ready to do it" etc so I'm in a place of feeling weird about it.. we talk about deep stuff and hard stuff sometimes but not really sex, apart from in a really bashful/roundabout way I would like to maybe be able to communicate what I'd like a bit more, as I do more often than not focus on pleasuri...

I’m just wondering. Should I avoid having sex with smokers? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 11:39PM I’m just wondering. Should I avoid having sex with smokers?