We've been dating for 3 months and recently had sex. We are still talking and so I had to ask... Me: I do like dating you, but this is not hook up right? I’m not rushing too. But would like to ask if dating is or not hookup? I like the last date too btw. Him: I do not have answer. I do not know why you are so insecure. I told you yesterday, no deal or contract. Just go with flow if you want. If you do not like the way it is, you can leave. Me: I like dating you and want to go with flow but don’t want it to be only hookup. I don’t know what to do? I’m not the type to just date anyone. Him: There is no guarantee for anything in this world. I do not know to whom you called hookup. Up to my knowledge, hookup is meeting once or twice, use person and leave. Do you think this happened between us? Me: No, I don’t think its hookup then. Him: I am just dating you and having good time. Nothing else. I am not asking you money. Neither you are. Then how is it hookup? Me: Ok I see, I und...

Throwaway for anonymity. tl;dr I'm uncomfortable around my husband's friend after he made a gross comment to me while he was drunk. Not sure how to proceed. Backstory: My husband, "John" and I have been friends with a couple, "Dan" and "Jan", for a little over two years. Last summer, we started hanging out with them more regularly and going on weekend vacations about once every month. On these vacations we spend the whole weekend together, cook together, play games, do activities, etc. It's safe to say we spend a considerable amount of time together. Event: The four of us attended a mutual friend's wedding last summer, and in standard wedding fashion we were spending the night drinking and dancing. John and Dan drank significantly more than me and Jan, and soon they were considerably drunk. About 3/4ths of the way through the evening, I'm on the dance floor and Dan is nearby also dancing, while Jan and John are across the room talki...

Not sure what this girl wants from me? So long story short this girl hit me up few months ago and we’ve been talking since and meeting up, she always calls me cute and handsome and all that, we meet up and go to places where her friend are at and we have a fun time.. We video chatted a bit few weeks ago but that stopped as I slowly distances myself and stuff, she keeps calling me husband and I call her wife but I’m not sure if I want to keep calling her thay or even have contact with her anymore to be fair. Personally I’m just scared of catching feelings or getting into a relationship again, she’s very attractive and I like her personality but we cut contact for like a week since we last met and today her friend pops up on my story and says this “Are you cheating on your wife (her name)?” To which i said of course not and then she sends me voice notes of the girl I was seeing and we talked for a bit through voice notes and she says, you don’t talk to me and you’re probably busy w...

We've known each other for a few years and became pretty much best friends. I can give a little more detail on that if needed, but wanted to state that before stating that we've only been officially dating for about a week. I'm already having doubts though and feel really unwanted. He has told me in the past that he's not a very sexual person, and it's pretty clearly true. There HAVE been times where we've either flirted on the phone/text or had sex, but it's not very often. I want our passion to be there and more often, both in talking while we're away and when we're together. I don't know how to bring any of it up though. I feel like I shouldn't already be feeling this way. We had sex about a month ago, but have only kissed a little bit since then and made our relationship official about a week ago. I've asked him before if he's asexual and he said 'no'. I actually didn't know he was romantically interested in me until...

Hi guys, I’m new here but I really do need some advice. So yesterday me and my boyfriend were hanging out, when I found out he was talking to this girl planning to go out with her in 2018. They never went out, they just casually talked sometimes for 1 month and he kept flirting with her, vice-versa. But they suddenly stop talking and he kept cold with her. They never talked again, and I never saw a chat like that again. I confronted him about it, he really seemed ashamed and he gave me the whole story. I just feel cheated on a bit, I didn’t like finding out that he kept talking to this other girl sometimes, they never exchanged nudes or anything like that, they only flirted. I feel really bad about it and I’m just really sad. I decided to stay with him, he explained to me about his sexual insecurity with me and I know that he deals with depression since 2017, I just can’t seem to really get over it. We are in our 20’s, live together and have a cat together and I felt really happy with...

So I have been dating this guy since November. We started talking through Bumble in September. He has been divorced for about 6-7 years now and has 5 children ages 8-19. I didn't find out about the kids until I had been speaking to him for about a month. I am a child free person however I was willing to give it a chance with him. I even stated that I didn't want to meet the kids until at least 6 months down the line or when we felt comfortable with introducing us. We started going out on dates and we both really liked each other. However, I noticed that there were some strange things about him. He claimed that he had his kids on weekends so I could never see him Friday-Sunday. When I saw him on weekdays, it was very scheduled like he could see me Monday from 3-5 or Tuesday night and he would get to my house around 5:30 but be gone by 9:00. I offered to come to his house once a week since my schedule is more flexible and I didn’t mind going once a week. He was very evasive abou...

Hopefully this is the right place to post this - I (34f) have been in a FWB “relationship” for the last 5 months or so with a 38m. Him and I just recently reconnected after not seeing each other for about 6 years when we previously had a 3 year fwb relationship 🙈. This time around him and I have not had the conversation about what exactly we are doing, but it’s very safe to say it’s strictly FWB although we do meet up for drinks/watch movies hang out together we are definitely not dating. Him and I both are not the greatest at communicating (something I am working on) so we haven’t discussed if we’re seeing other people etc. Yesterday morning we hooked up and I had a date later in the evening, he asked what my plans were and I got nervous and lied. My question: Should I tell him when/if I plan on dating other men or is that not his business because we are strictly only FWB and would you want to know? Edit: I had no intentions of sleeping with the other guy I was going on a date with...