Alright y’all. I have an embarrassing problem. When I have sex with my boyfriend my asshole get super itchy. To clarify, this is while having PIV. But sex is pretty messy as you know and if anything gets on my asshole (and it always does, whether it’s from him or from me), it makes me itch. This has been going on for a over a month now. Sometimes it’s itchy just for no reason too. I can’t remember if it first started while having sex or not. MORE BACKGROUND: I’ve been with the same partner (he’s male, I’m female) for over year and it’s a monogamous relationship. We were tested for STD’s at some point shortly before getting together and all results were negative. We do not have anal sex, just PIV, although once his penis did slip. We do not use condoms. I’ve had an IUD the whole time. No significant medical history. I haven’t asked my doctor because this is an embarrassing problem. TL;DR what is making my asshole itch?? Submitted November 29, 2019 at 10:38PM Alright y’all. ...

Hello all, I’ve been married to my wonderful wife for a few years now. One thing that continually happens is a numbness during sex for her. Both of us have only been with each other (for real), so when things like this happen, it isn’t the easiest to figure out. It usually happens after 20 minutes of sex. Any thought on how to deal with this? And a random thing to give advice one. My lady is quite quiet during sex. Any thoughts on how to Yelp this? Thanks for the thoughts and ideas! Submitted November 29, 2019 at 10:40PM Hello all,I’ve been married to my wonderful wife for a few years now. One thing that continually happens is a numbness during sex for her. Both of us have only been with each other (for real), so when things like this happen, it isn’t the easiest to figure out.It usually happens after 20 minutes of sex. Any thought on how to deal with this?And a random thing to give advice one. My lady is quite quiet during sex. Any thoughts on how to Yelp this?Thanks for th...

I (23M) am pretty sure I still don't know how to tongue kiss. Like how long should tongue contact occur? Should it be quick or go on for a bit? Also what do I do with my tongue while it's in there? Just poke around, or move it more? I do my best to just be in the moment when this happens but I also feel like a complete dunce because I have no idea what I'm doing lol. Any advice would be appreciated Submitted November 29, 2019 at 10:49PM I (23M) am pretty sure I still don't know how to tongue kiss. Like how long should tongue contact occur? Should it be quick or go on for a bit? Also what do I do with my tongue while it's in there? Just poke around, or move it more? I do my best to just be in the moment when this happens but I also feel like a complete dunce because I have no idea what I'm doing lol.Any advice would be appreciated

I'll try and keep this post as short as possible, but I'm going through a bit of a reflective period post-breakup. My SO and I broke up recently primarily because of a lack of sexual chemistry, along with a few other issues in the relationship. For me, the lack of chemistry was a problem. If I'm honest with myself, that chemistry had been lacking pretty much since the start. It's a real shame because, other than that, we got on so well and really cared for each other. In fact, in the days since the breakup, I've been wondering if we made the right decision and if we should have maybe explored all these things a bit more. We talked extensively about the lack of chemistry, but just couldn't really find any solutions. Background aside, this isn't the first time I've felt this way about a relationship. In fact, I wouldn't say I've ever been in a particularly fulfilling relationship sexually. I've never blamed my SO for this (it takes two to tan...

Hi all, I went through the FAQ and didn't see much about this. my girlfriend and I have tried three times now, but essentially my rather average sized member doesn't want to go in. I don't get it, I've tried pushing in basically everywhere in case I was just in the wrong area but I am not. And I have no trouble fingering her. What's the easiest mode of entry in you guys's experience? I just want to be able to get in there already, dammit! Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:56PM Hi all, I went through the FAQ and didn't see much about this. my girlfriend and I have tried three times now, but essentially my rather average sized member doesn't want to go in. I don't get it, I've tried pushing in basically everywhere in case I was just in the wrong area but I am not. And I have no trouble fingering her.What's the easiest mode of entry in you guys's experience? I just want to be able to get in there already, dammit!

Uh hello, this is kinda my first time posting here so kinda nervous. Sorry if the question is a bit weird, but i am going to see my girlfriend for the weekend tomorrow (she lives 2h30 hours from me so i can only see her 1 time per 2 weeks) and i love her very much she is the best thing that has happened to me and i love her with all my heart. The thing is, last time was the first time she tried to give me oral (it is our first sexual experiences for us 2) and she said that my precum was salty. While i didn't cum because it is novemver, i am wondering, since tommorow is December and the end of nnn, is there anything i can do to make my cum or fluids taste better, so it will be enjoyable for her and share something special together? Thank you! Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:58PM Uh hello, this is kinda my first time posting here so kinda nervous. Sorry if the question is a bit weird, but i am going to see my girlfriend for the weekend tomorrow (she lives 2h30 hours from me ...

This kinda pisses me off when I hear it but I don’t know if I’m just clueless. Is it old school/homophobic thinking that it’s not sex because there is no dick involved? Like, if those 2 girls like each other they will still drop everything if they see a dick so NBD. Am I missing something or...? I get when people talk about play in other aspects, like butt play or group play or whatever, and I understand there is such a thing as bi curiosity and that’s cool and all, but you are going to try having sex with a person, not “play” with them. When people say this I seriously imagine 2 girls cracking out the scrabble. Like, when do you “play” in a hetero hookup/relationship unless you’re talking about fetishes or kinks? Being bi isn’t a kink. Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:58PM This kinda pisses me off when I hear it but I don’t know if I’m just clueless. Is it old school/homophobic thinking that it’s not sex because there is no dick involved? Like, if those 2 girls like each oth...