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My (22m) bipolar gf (21f) is pushing me away, what should I do?

Hello all, I love my girlfriend and we have been together for 4 months now. We are in a long distance relation for the time being, with a relatively sound plan to close the distance in a year. She said to me that she suffers from bipolar disorder 2 months ago, a day in which she was acting super distant and I asked her what’s wrong. Anyway, she is often really loving. But one time I went to her hometown to see her, I felt really unwelcomed after a few days. Especially this one day I was waiting for her to get back home, I tried to kiss her and she said she needs some space. I honestly felt she wasn’t in for it anymore, but things went back to normal after a while and we had some great moments after it. Additionally, sometimes I feel like I annoy her when I text her. I’m quite a cheesy person, so I just express my love and expect something in return, yet she just says that stuff like “yeah, I’m not super cheesy atm” or so. I tried to talk to her. But she says this is just how she ...

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Hello, first time posting. I read the community rules, so please let me know if I broke them. I apologize for the lack of detail, as I'd rather not have this traced back. I ( 25M ) have been friends with ( 24F ) this woman for a while. I met her in post-graduate professional schooling. Our friend group is all professionals in the same school, same age group. Never thought about her in a romantic way, in fact she even started dating another guy in the group and when things went bad (on and off again) our group would do our best to give them space and be supportive. Fast forward our last year, the relationship is over. I got really close with her ex, and now we're great friends. He's moved on (I think, he still talks badly of her in conversations), and she's moved on also. She's dated other people and so has he. I have too, but I don't think that matters. They don't really hang out anymore and the group has pretty much splintered, with some of us trying to h...

How would you feel if your girlfriend told you she used to be a sugar baby?

I’m 25 years old and I am in a relationship of about 2 months, and I am coming here seeking others’ perspective on the matter. The man I am dating is truly a gem, and I am intent on keeping him. However, I feel as though I really need to tell him that I used to be a sugar baby, because in a relationship I really need to feel 100% accepted for the most important things about myself, and I know that there is a lot of stigma surrounding sugar dating, and I do not want to strip my boyfriend of his personal autonomy by not giving him the choice to choose whether to stay with me or not, given my past. I was a sugar baby from the time I was 18 to 24, and I do not regret it. My sugar daddy was 30 when I first met him, and we remain good friends. I kept a job as a waitress for the first year of sugaring because I didn’t want to rely entirely on sugaring, but I decided to quit not only because my sugar daddy wanted to see me more often, but because he was giving me so much money. He was givin...

Need help to leave a toxic relationship (29F) (32M)

Basically my boyfriend cheated on me. We’ve been going out since January 2019. I found out a few days after he met my family. I am in so much pain but at the same time I can’t seem to find the strength to leave him. I know I deserve better but I keep obsessing about him being with the other girl, and not me. My emotions are everywhere, I can’t sleep and eat. I feel like I’m falling apart. He wants to see me to talk but i don’t know if I should. TL;DR: I can’t seem to leave my cheating boyfriend. My life is in shambles. Submitted November 16, 2019 at 12:13AM Basically my boyfriend cheated on me. We’ve been going out since January 2019. I found out a few days after he met my family. I am in so much pain but at the same time I can’t seem to find the strength to leave him. I know I deserve better but I keep obsessing about him being with the other girl, and not me. My emotions are everywhere, I can’t sleep and eat. I feel like I’m falling apart. He wants to see me to talk but i don...

How can I reinvent myself (16M) so I can learn to socialise and build relationships with both myself, and others, despite the significant ball and chain of Aspergers?

Hello all! I'm making this post as a sort of self intervention of sorts as well as a question. I've spent two years realising after realising I don't like being anxious and feeling worried for what will come after school when I don't even know how to start a conversation with my current friends, through text especially and irl very often there's difficulty as well. I don't speak to anyone new because I have nothing to say and I never know if it's the right monent, which is the same for if I want to text someone someone, and I feel like crap when everyone can socialise at school or text each other happily knowing what to do. For exanpl, one of the schools nearby mine had a fire and pupils were moved to our school. Insert classes they were encouraged to socialise and speak with each other, and I just sat alone, everyone every on lse in the class happy, making friends and such, but I dont even know where to start. I feel like an idiot I consider group and clu...

/u/Stagnant_Heir on My coworkers just love to gossip and get me not outing myself as ace completely wrong

DnD Aces unite! Not pursuing or spending energy on sex = more game time with friends 😁 I'm running a session tomorrow and doing last minute prep. Do you DM or play primarily? November 16, 2019 at 12:10AM

/u/RandomNinja11 on Me and my pasta is all I need

Read this as I was in line to get pasta lmao November 16, 2019 at 12:07AM