So, I am in a management position in a manufacturing facility. I meet with vendor sales people on a regular basis. Recently I have met a young lady who I have taken an interest in for more than what I purchase from her. I am married but my marriage has been on the brink of collapse long before I met this young lady. Now i am even less interested in making things work. This women is much younger than me. She is in her early 20s and i am in my mid 30s. She doesnt even live in the same state but she isn't terribly far from where i live. I feel a connection when she stops in. When she visits there is something to do with the business end of things but there is a lot of chatting about personal life, likes, wants etc. I feel like she may be interested in me but im not sure. I just dont know how I would go about expressing interest to her. Would it be out of line or creepy for me to ask her to lunch? I dont know how the relationship would even work but I just can not stop thinking about ...

This guy who I thought I was friends with is acting all weird all of a sudden like I would text him and he wouldn’t reply back or for example yestedsy he messaged me saying “what you saying” and I replied back and he didn’t say anything back like wtf ur the one who messaged me first lol but today for example I messaged him about a way for him to make money and let me tell you he replied back soooo fast and he was replying back to every single thing. We used to talk and chill all the time like he was one of my good friends why do you think he’s acting like that? What should I do about it? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 11:26PM This guy who I thought I was friends with is acting all weird all of a sudden like I would text him and he wouldn’t reply back or for example yestedsy he messaged me saying “what you saying” and I replied back and he didn’t say anything back like wtf ur the one who messaged me first lol but today for example I messaged him about a way for him to make money a...

For background, I am 26F and he is 27f and we met on Tinder. We have been on three dates so far. The first date, we met for drinks at a local pub. We maybe hung out for 3 hours? It was nice but nothing amazing. I did think he was very good looking in person. We texted infrequently after the first date. He asked me on a second date but not for almost 3 weeks. I met him for drinks, we kissed for the first time and it was good... A week later (last week) he said he could meet me but he had been out all day. I invited him over to mine for drinks but he said we should go to the pub instead. We went for a drink. He ended up coming up to my apartment afterwards anyway and we made out for about an hour. It probably would have gone further but he had to work very early. After this, he has text me daily (usually first) but it is only short conversations (2-3 messages each max). I know he will probably text me on his day off asking to go for drinks. I am confused because if he just wanted ...

There’s a guy [21M] I [20F] have been speaking to. We know each other but have matched on tinder and been chatting a bit, and now moved over to text and Snapchat. I really like speaking to him. I do think I like him, and I get hints that he likes me, but I still don’t know if he’s just being nice and friendly because we do know each other and have to see each other every week. Like for example, he remembers things I say, and he tells me I’m sweet and he’s good at replying usually, conversations flow well. But then when we see each other we don’t actually speak at all? We have a lecture together every Thursday and maybe because I have different friends in the class to him, we just don’t end up talking or even saying hi to each other. To be honest I can’t even look at him because I’m so nervous, and it always makes me think oh god he doesn’t actually like me does he, he is just being nice. What can I do to increase my confidence so I can actually speak to him? I’m going to make extr...

So, I'm trying to meet some guys(and gals) to see what my options are. I met a guy off tinder and we ended up being each other's meme dealers and being friends. I actually started having a crush on him because he was respectful and did not straight up ask me to hook up. Well, this past sunday, he asked me to go to his place and watch a movie and cuddle Wednesday evening. I got super excited, bragging to my friends ab how cute and respectful he was. Come Wednesday, I got all cute and ready to go. I made it to his place and he took me to Target just to mess with the halloween stuff then we went and got some taco bell to go. We went back to his place, ate and watched a movie. We cuddled then made out. But during this, my roommate(a close friend of mine) was also at a boys house. She hasn't responded or called me back so I got worried and cut the date short(even tho it was like 1AM lol) to open a can of whoop ass on a dude(she was FINE. She fell asleep at his place). The next ...

Like I said in the title, I am tired of being single. It’s great, don’t get me wrong, but I’ve only ever had one gf (I’m 20) last year and it was the worst 6 months of my life. She treated me poorly and made me feel like I wasn’t important enough to her. I want to get back out there and date. I’ve gone on several dates since we broke up in June, but none of them have lead anywhere. I’ve been rejected, turned down, lied to and ghosted more so than ever before in my romantic life. I feel like I’m at the end of my metaphorical rope. I just want to actually find a girl who is interested in me and wants a relationship, but no girls in my area seem to want that- at least with me. What can I do? I always make sure I’m clean and respectful, I’m on Tinder, Bumble, etc, I talk to friends but nothing is working. Do you guys have any ideas? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 11:43PM Like I said in the title, I am tired of being single. It’s great, don’t get me wrong, but I’ve only ever had one...

Help with whether or not to ask my childhood crush out on a date. I am 20 years old and just recently moved to a new city. I have never had a girlfriend before in my life and have never kissed nor done anything more than that. At the age of 20, I have become increasingly interested in dating and finding a girlfriend, but I have a hard time approaching this. I have, as many before me, downloaded Tinder, Bumble and so on. I have gotten a few matches, but nothing that has amounted to anything. I would not say I am desperate, but there is this one girl that I can't get out of my mind. She was the first girl I crushed on when I was about 10. She lives in the city, I have just moved from, but I really want to contact her and ask her on a date. Even though she has never showed any signs of liking me and in many ways it seems quite stupid to try and start dating a person that lives 3-4 hours from me. Also I know her best friend has had feelings for me, so I feel everything about this is ...