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Sex with a Big Beautiful Woman in a few days and I need some advice

I've been dating this gorgeous girthy girl for a few weeks now and it's going amazingly, she's confirmed that we're getting it on in a few days. I'm incredibly nervous as I've never had any experience before, but she has so at least one of us knows what we're doing. So what's the best advice for pleasuring a big girl? I'm 7'' if that helps, could that open our options in terms of positions? How do I last more than 10 seconds? HELP?! Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:13PM I've been dating this gorgeous girthy girl for a few weeks now and it's going amazingly, she's confirmed that we're getting it on in a few days. I'm incredibly nervous as I've never had any experience before, but she has so at least one of us knows what we're doing.So what's the best advice for pleasuring a big girl? I'm 7'' if that helps, could that open our options in terms of positions? How do I last more than 10 seconds...

How the hell do I [30M) do kegels ?

I have been trying to do them for a week now (had 2 one-day breaks and I am not overdoing it on 'work days'). So far absolutely no progress but worse is that I have no idea what am doing. ​ ​ I understand that for kegels we should concentrate on two types of pelvic floor muscles. The one you stop your pee with. And reverse kegel which is the one you use to increase stream of pee (anus tightens doing this). And honestly I just don't get it. I can't feel those muscles like at all. All I do is some weak-ass squeezes. Just like this guy [NSFW PornHub link of a guy doing kegels) But these are pulses. How are you supposed to squeeze and hold that for 5-10 seconds? ​ ​ I am not in a great shape but I lost over 60 pounds and about 25lbs left until my Goal Weight. I eat pretty clean and drink plenty of water. I can hike/run/bike long distances with no issues. I have also been going to yoga classes for 8 weeks now and made a very visible progress. We also do a lot of...

Kinks lining up with past sexual trauma

Okay so I'm not saying it always goes this deep, but today my friend (a transboy, we'll call him alex) revealed to me that he was sexually abused by his dad at a young age. He's now really into DDLG, wanting to play as a child with a "daddy" to take care of him. My foster brother used me for sex when I was 14. He spent months coercing me into it, until I finally gave in, and he used me for years. Now, I'm in a healthy relationship, but I find myself saying "order me around" "I want to be your little sex slave" and "daddy I want you to use me." This is the shit I tried so hard to escape, but coming from him it's like a turn on. I think my foster brother distorted the idea of sex into something it wasn't meant to be. I feel like I only exist to get him off. At one time I was so attention starved I stripped for older men on omegle. I'm in a sort of better place right now, but does anyone else ever feel like this? Anyone ...

How do you begin the conversation about swinging?

Any tips to start the topic with SO? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:20PM Any tips to start the topic with SO?

Why have you cheated and how you felt about it?

I've cheated on my gf and to be honest, I feel like shit. I know that is a bad thing and I don't know what to do. I'm not looking for an excuse or trying to justify why I did it but it sucks that I did it. I know this is terrible, I live with my gf for about 3 years now and she's amazing. She's loving, caring, HOT, we have amazing sex and just the ''regular'' problems any other couples have (we have bad weeks, stress from our jobs, family..), but in general we are happy and we are mutually satisfied. I'm a pretty chill guy, I respect my gf and I love her but the thing just got out of control. I watch a lot of porn and I masturbate a lot and , to be honest, I think this little ''addiction'' might be getting in my way because, I was just horny and needed to blow of some steam when I fucked this other girl. There is this girl on my job who is hot as well and she flirts a lot with me, she tends to be very "tactile" with ...

Lack of consistent sex leads to feelings of short tempered, annoyance, and horny all the time after a certain period of time?

I figured it was finally time to post a question of my own after being a lurker of this sub on occasion. I am 21 and my girlfriend and I have been together for quite sometime, albeit she is also my first girlfriend and first for everything, this of course includes losing my virginity. Our sex life seems to be all over the table, but if I could sum it up, a good week is one to two times per week max, and a bad week is once every two weeks and sometimes three weeks. Factors impact this includes us both living at home with our parents still, her only wanting to do anything if she had come just fresh out of the shower or shortly before, and us not being home alone with another. However, some weeks she seems to be all over me, and although we may not have full on intercourse each time, we certainly do things a few times out of the week. Sex is like a high, and although she may have been my first and only, I already know that it's something that I absolutely love and believe to be ...

How can a 21 year old guy curb his horniness?

I'm 21 and I'm still as horny as I was when I was a teenager. I masturbate like 3 times a day and I'm always thinking about how I want to fuck a girl or just see girls with no clothes on. I'm shy and have a hard time approaching girls and stuff, so I know I'm not going to get laid anytime soon. I'd therefore really like to stop being horny and wanting to fuck. Some people say working out helps, but I already work out regularly and it isn't helping. I don't know what to do Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:29PM I'm 21 and I'm still as horny as I was when I was a teenager. I masturbate like 3 times a day and I'm always thinking about how I want to fuck a girl or just see girls with no clothes on. I'm shy and have a hard time approaching girls and stuff, so I know I'm not going to get laid anytime soon. I'd therefore really like to stop being horny and wanting to fuck. Some people say working out helps, but I already work out...