My (m19) gf (f18) and I are fairly new into our relationship and I think it’s great, however there is a few interesting little quirks (nothing at risk of damaging our relationship but nonetheless things i’d like to work out). First and foremost, both of us have slept with a decent amount of people, so we are both relatively experienced. However, she says that (it’s tough for me to buy this) that she didn’t actually know that sex was good for girls as well before we started dating, and with that she’s never had an orgasm. This is obviously something that I would like to do for her, and i’ve tried my best multiple occasions but haven’t been able to. I’m trying my best not to rush it or make it the main goal of sex so that i don’t put any pressure on her. Also, i’ve been through some emotional damage from one of my exes for not being able to make her cum and it’s kind of fucked with my sexual self esteem. My girlfriend doesn’t really talk about sex, other than saying she enjoys it an...

As the tittle says, I simply don't have enough gas in my tank to keep up with gf. We have been together for 3 years, and in the beginning we had sex constantly, all day every day that we spent together. Well since late July of this year we have been having sex almost as much as we did when we first got together. She regularly wakes me up for sex before she gets ready, almost every time I get home from work she wants to have sex, and a few times she has woken me up during the middle of the night to fuck. On the weekends it isn't as big a deal since we both can sleep in and all that, but even then we will go 4-5 times in a day. I love my girlfriend. I love having sex with her. Problem is I don't have the energy to supply her demand. I work a physically demanding job, I lift weights and run multiple times a week, and I do my best to maintain a social life with a few friends. She works full time, exercises, and has her own hobbies so I don't even know how she has the ene...

Oh I really like that last statement! Thank you for pointing that out!! August 22, 2019 at 12:21AM

This is something that's on my mind a lot right now, and I feel like I'm in need of some... advice? Insight? If this is the wrong subreddit to bring up the topic of incest, or if this post offends anyone, I'm sorry in advance. And sorry for my possibly weird english, I'm not a native speaker. My (older) brother and I have been talking about sleeping with each other recently. I'm in my late teens, he's in his early 20s. I'm moving in with him in September to make my life easier (school, commute, stuff like that), and the idea of some sort of "siblings with benefits" relationship got itself into our heads. It came up a few months ago as a joke, like with a meme one of us texted at the other, aaand it kinda snowballed from there. Now we talk about it a lot, and we're seriously considering giving it a try, but we're not entirely sure about it. We know it's supposed to be "wrong" but I can't really see why it would be wrong....

This definitely doesn’t make sense to me at all. Your lack of interest in fashion is a minimal preference that exists in your life. The reason your sexual orientation is a “centerpiece” of who you are is because it directly affects the trajectory of your life. It alters the way you have to navigate through the world, and even changes your access to certain human rights, unfortunately. Additionally, fashion interest is a temporary thing. The clothing you wear today could be completely different than the clothing you wear tomorrow. And will likely be extremely different than the clothing you wear in ten years. Another thing is, hobbies or interests, like interest in golfing or not, are choices you make. There are also no cultural expectations that you will be interested in golfing, and no “corrective strategies” to make you interested in them. And no one questions whether or not you actually are not interested in golfing once you’ve disclosed you are not. Ultimately, I find this stat...

You learn about sexualities in primary school in the free world… and I'm not particularly young, so it's not like this is the hot new addition to the syllabus. August 22, 2019 at 12:19AM

Are they for real? Asexuality isn’t just “me no like sex,” it’s “I never thought anyone was cute.” When will people get that through their heads!? It’s not “I tried Chinese food and was neutral about it,” it’s “I don’t want to try this food at all, and never will.” Celibacy myths are everywhere! August 22, 2019 at 12:19AM