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The rest of my life feels so bland because I derive so much pleasure from sex.

I can't be the only one that feels like this. Regular everyday "enjoyable" things feel bland and pointless, and I don't have much fun doing anything other than when it's sexual. For some background I'm a 28 year old dude, have an abnormally high sex drive (Hyperspermia to be exact), and have a few FWB's that I keep in close contact with to the point where I'm having sex 1-2 times a day. Things like watching movies, netflix, youtube, listening to comedians, whatever it may be.. I get little pleasure or enjoyment from. I feel like the pleasure I get from sex is such a high peak that the rest of life feels flat, bland, and almost boring. Like my adrenaline/dopamine receptors are fucked up because of the use I've put into them over the last ~10-15 years. Anyone heard of something like this or been through it yourself and can share some insight to it? Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:04AM I can't be the only one that feels like this. Regular e...

Lots Blood in SO semen?

SO had a 100 mile mountain bike race last week Saturday. When he got home Sunday evening we had sex, and when he came it was very bloody. At first we thought I had started my cycle early but as the day went on with no more blood we concluded that it must’ve been him. Is this cause for alarm or do you think it has to do with his the stress caused to that area from his race? Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:08AM SO had a 100 mile mountain bike race last week Saturday. When he got home Sunday evening we had sex, and when he came it was very bloody. At first we thought I had started my cycle early but as the day went on with no more blood we concluded that it must’ve been him. Is this cause for alarm or do you think it has to do with his the stress caused to that area from his race?

Weird pain after sex?

So, me and my bf had sex a view days ago, hes average size, but for some reason he went deep like usual and I had immediate pain. My first thought was bruised cervix, but it's still a little painful when I twist around, and it's been almost a week? Is this normal? I'm going to schedule a gyno appointment Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:10AM So, me and my bf had sex a view days ago, hes average size, but for some reason he went deep like usual and I had immediate pain. My first thought was bruised cervix, but it's still a little painful when I twist around, and it's been almost a week? Is this normal? I'm going to schedule a gyno appointment

What is a sissy kink/fetish? I think my husband is into it, but I still don’t really understand what it is.

My husband and I (both early 30’s) been together 10 years. Good marriage, good sex life, it’s pretty regular, and fun. A few years ago I used his phone (with permission) he must have forgotten to close the browser he was in, it was a private browser it was an erotica site with written erotic stories, he was on one about sissies. I didn’t read it, I just closed the tab and looked up what I was looking up. A couple weeks ago he told me to go on his tablet and look up something he had saved on reddit. He’s pretty new to Reddit and probably didn’t realize unless you change your options to otherwise it shows what subs you frequent. He had been frequenting sissy subs. I want through some of the subs and I have to say I’m actually pretty confused. I’m also unsure if this is something I should bring up. I love pleasing him sexually, and if this is something we could do together I’d love to partake with him! I just don’t know what that would look like. I’m also hesitant to bring it up becau...

Why is it impossible for me to cum during sex?

I am a 24 y.o. woman. I have a VERY high sex drive. I have a lot of sex on a regular basis, and I would like to say I have had my fair share of sexual partners. However, I have never once came with any of my partners, and I can’t figure out why. I am only able to cum through masturbation. I still find sex immensely enjoyable despite the fact that I never cum, but I would like to one day cum through sexual intercourse. Has anyone else experienced this? What has helped you? Why do you think I have this problem? Any thoughtful input appreciated. Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:12AM I am a 24 y.o. woman. I have a VERY high sex drive. I have a lot of sex on a regular basis, and I would like to say I have had my fair share of sexual partners. However, I have never once came with any of my partners, and I can’t figure out why. I am only able to cum through masturbation. I still find sex immensely enjoyable despite the fact that I never cum, but I would like to one day cum through sexual...

I'm suffering from mental relationship/sexual assault wounds that make me feel like I'm unloveable and just an object

Hey, i don't even know if this is the right place to post, but seeing as how I'm feeling right now encompassing sexual relationships with people, then Im just gonna do it. To be honest, I don't even know where to begin. After going through a couple of honestly, quite rough and emotionally draining relationships, I started the new year feeling a bit low on the whole romance front. After experiencing sexual assault pretty recently too, I also feel like sex has become something so unromantic to me, where its mor just an act than it is a connection with someone. I've met à couple of really cool, nice people since then, that I've definitely connected to. Yet I still have this feeling that I'm so unloveable and not worth it, eating away at me. It's gotten to the point where I just feel like there is no hope of me being with someone that actually cares about me, the way I feel that deep down I deserve. I would say that even this time last year I had more confiden...

People at work think I slept with a coworker?

First thing's first: I didn't. I'm a virgin. I, at 21, am easily the youngest person where I work. I'm also one of the only girls. It's an active, blue collar job and I mostly work with men who are at least 10 or so years older than me. For the most part, I get along with them. A lot of them are real sweethearts, and so long as you work hard and you're friendly they'll be your best friend. It's overall a great work environment. Now, I went out a couple weeks ago with a few of the younger guys. I ended up getting pretty drunk, and then I got a ride home from one of them. I didn't know this at the time because I haven't known him very long, but apparently he's a huge womanizer. He invited me to his place but I declined, and he dropped me off at home. Now it turns out that some of the other guys saw me get a ride home from him and told people that I went home with him. Because of his reputation, people think we had sex. A couple of the guys ...