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I can’t take life anymore and want it to end

I am so fucking sick of my life and I wish it would end. I have trouble forgiving myself for a decision I made in the summer before my senior year. I had a girl that liked me and I honestly kind of wanted to date her but I decided not to because she was dating a new guy every month and I didn't want to get my heart broken. I was also to focused on my business and making money. Instead that month she decided to date my best friend and break his heart a month later. She then dated another guy in August and broke his heart but in September she found the person she was going to date the whole school year. Honestly I have been extremely down on myself for not making a move at some point. After realizing 2 months ago high school is ending huge regret has set in for not dating her. Every time I see would see them in the halls or at any school event I just think that could have been us. I just think I ruined my senior year which I had high expectation for. There were some good moments but...

Why is this girl is never available for 2nd date?

So I went on a date with a girl 3 weeks ago. She seemed cool. We've exchanged texts once a day or so. I've invited her on Saturday dates the past 2 weeks and she always has something going on. I invited her for this Saturday and of course she has a friend's birthday party. I feel like I'm wasting my time. Should I just stop texting her and move on? Submitted June 10, 2019 at 11:18PM So I went on a date with a girl 3 weeks ago. She seemed cool. We've exchanged texts once a day or so. I've invited her on Saturday dates the past 2 weeks and she always has something going on. I invited her for this Saturday and of course she has a friend's birthday party. I feel like I'm wasting my time. Should I just stop texting her and move on?

Does anyone else ever feel this way?

I sometimes get the urge to chat with almost every girl I see. In a pressured way, I mean. My mind saying, "Don't let her get away! Where's your gumption?" It feels unnatural and done just for the sake of it. Has anyone else ever felt this way? Submitted June 10, 2019 at 11:28PM I sometimes get the urge to chat with almost every girl I see. In a pressured way, I mean. My mind saying, "Don't let her get away! Where's your gumption?" It feels unnatural and done just for the sake of it. Has anyone else ever felt this way?

Girl hung up on ex.

I met this girl and we started talking. We got along really well and had a bunch of things in common. Everything was going perfect. We went on a first date and then a second the next day. Then, the day after the second date, she ghosted me. I started freaking out and trying to piece together what the hell I did wrong. I thought everything was going smoothly. She messaged me the day after and told me that she wasn't looking for anything and wasn't in a good place. Never explained anything further. We kept talking just as "friends" and still have been. We follow eachother on Instagram and I noticed she had liked one of those "relatable" heartbroken text pictures about "missing the memories but not him" etc. Went to the page and saw she had liked a bunch of those same pics about missing an ex/still having feelings/whatever you can think might be in one of those pictures, including pictures that had been uploaded to the page before we went on our da...

People tell my GF she can do better how do i feel better?

Her friends tell her she can find s more attractive guy. She is really good looking and I find myself a bit insecure about how good she looks compared to me. Her friends tell her she csn find a hoter bf and it hurts my esteem. What should i do. Say? Submitted June 10, 2019 at 11:47PM Her friends tell her she can find s more attractive guy. She is really good looking and I find myself a bit insecure about how good she looks compared to me.Her friends tell her she csn find a hoter bf and it hurts my esteem. What should i do. Say?

Looking for dating books or advice for men that avoid the problematic/toxic pitfalls of online "pick up artist" culture.

Hi! Like so many people out there, I feel that I really struggle with dating, but I also want that SPECIAL SOMEONE and all that, lol. I am a heterosexual cisgender man not interested in poly or open relationships (though no judgment!), for what that is worth. And also probably like everybody else, a lot of my dating activity starts online these days, ha. I know a large part of dating is accepting the fact that things don't always turn out the way you might hope they will, but I often am worried that I sort of shoot myself in the foot a lot. I am seeking advice in terms of timing (making certain gestures/moves too late or too early), basic flirting skills, how to approach those I am interested in, how to tell those I am interested in them that I am interested in them, how to read various signs, what the kindest way to communicate with someone if I'm not interested, etc. I am wondering if anyone knows of any good resources for dating advice that doesn't involve the really ...

Some people are trash at communication

I’m a really straightforward and upfront person. If I like you, I’ll let you know and offer my number. If I’m no longer interested in dating you I’ll tell you so. There’s this guy I met a few months back that I’d see almost daily. We’d chat and we got to know each other. I thought “hey I like this guy” so I asked him if I could give him my number. He said yes. We texted for a bit and then a few days later he stops texting me and I don’t see him around. Over a week and a half later he pops up out of nowhere and sends me a text. Also this past Friday I was supposed to go on a date with some other guy and he didn’t follow through because “he got distracted by his friends”. I told him it was okay and that if he doesn’t want to go on a date that it is fine but also tell me what you want. I got no response. I know these are minor things and it’s not a big issue. It’s just frustrating when I hear all the time that guys appreciate an upfront girl but whenever I’m upfront with guys I feel l...