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Think I missed an opportunity [m30]

Was talking with this girl I know about how my good buddy just got engaged. Her: "My dating life sucks. I usually get set up and it's always shitty. I prefer it when a guy I know just asks me out." me: "yeah it's pretty tough out there..." I definitely should have put in a better effort lol Submitted May 24, 2019 at 01:17AM Was talking with this girl I know about how my good buddy just got engaged.Her: "My dating life sucks. I usually get set up and it's always shitty. I prefer it when a guy I know just asks me out."me: "yeah it's pretty tough out there..."I definitely should have put in a better effort lol

Is it ok to request distance from a dating partner for a few days?

I feel like I need some time without distractions to process an issue we recently had. Submitted May 24, 2019 at 01:18AM I feel like I need some time without distractions to process an issue we recently had.

What does being exclusive mean to you?

Okay, I’m in a bit of a predicament here. So, the guy I’ve been dating and I spoke on Monday that we’re at a point in which we don’t want to date other people, haven’t been dating other people, and want to continue seeing each other because we like each other. People are like oh so you have a boyfriend now?! And I have no idea on how to respond. Yes, we’re technically exclusive, but we didn’t discuss “titles”I guess so to speak. I’m just thinking we’re still dating and we’re waiting to make it official. Now, I’m okay with the direction this is going and frankly doing need any titles in this current moment, but I just get so many different opinions on now where this relationship stands. So, out of curiosity, when you ask someone to be exclusive with you, does that mean you’re asking them to be your significant other or are you just making it known that you’ll only be dating each other so it can get to that point? Submitted May 24, 2019 at 01:31AM Okay, I’m in a bit of a predicam...

I [19M] Feel Really Scared of Not Being Able To Have An Attractive Girlfriend In My Entire Life

Just like the title says, I fear living a life without an attractive girlfriend and I need advice on how to have such an attractive girlfriend. In high school, every time I asked my crushes, I was rejected due to not being as attractive as they wanted their ideal boyfriends to be, despite me being as kind to them as possible. In university, other attractive girls ostracized me for my life-long sobriety, labeling me as immature and humiliating me because of it. I've always practiced good hygiene and showered every day to make myself look more attractive, but I still feel afraid of being rejected and I wish I was the most attractive man on Earth. I tried dating apps but to no avail as no real girl matched with me because the only ones that did were BOTS. And please, no more "you have a lot of time remaining" because I feel the need to date prior to senior year at University (I just completed freshman year). And I am afraid that all the pretty girls will end up taken rea...

Would you date someone if they were dating multiple people?

I started seeing(?) or dating someone a few weeks ago. We knew each other from work (same company, different work sites) and had an attraction toward each other but never acted on it because we were in another relationship at the time. She was dating other people before she hooked up with me. I told her that I don't like and don't date multiple people at once. Since we've been seeing each other, she voluntarily put a pause on her dating apps and had been putting off or deferring from seeing the other guys. Despite this, I guess I'm the first guy she's opened up to as much - the cuddling and extra intimacy after sex. (She has had sex with the other guys) The last time I was in the dating scene prior to this person was 15-20 years ago before a long term relationship that had ended about 7-8 months ago. I am unsure about the unwritten and unspoken rules of dating. At that time when I was dating, if you hooked up with someone, it was understood that you'd be excl...

Things are wack...

Ugh... I know, here goes another BS rant about dating being sucky... Seriously though... Shit sucks. So far, 80% over my ex gf, but I did thought I saw her a couple days ago and texted her to ask if that was her, she said no. Anyway, been trying to do this Bumble thing and got some matches with a bit of chit chatting, but led to nothing because they didn't reply back. Then, I've been like "picking up" girl customers from work, getting their numbers, etc but the one that did go on a date with me which was 3 months ago led to just being friends even though we did kiss and she said she wanted to take it slow... blows. Then, I got a number yesterday and we texted for a bit and once I asked to hang out, she said what time, but because I stopped telling them a time that way they can't say, "oh, no i cant at that time" so I what I do is that I ask what time works for them... lmao Anyway, she didn't respond afterwards... freaking girl.... She was kin...

See what happens or conclude early? (17M)

With the conclusion of junior year coming really soon, I’ve run into the stressful reality of senior year coming, my final year being in my hometown for quite a while. I’ve been dating this girl for almost 2 months now and truly, we’ve hit it off in a very excellent manner. Extremely kind, sweet, funny, just an amazing individual. Only issue is that she is a grade level below me, which means when I graduate she will still be here. I’ve settled on colleges that are a rather good distance away from my hometown, so seeing her would be a rarity. Such distance is a big stressor for me, as I’ve never been good at a long distance relationship. My freshman year of university and her senior year of high school, two extremely valuable years in developing memories and opportunities being at a large. Neither of us want to hold each other back, but at the same time neither one of us want to go our separate ways. My graduation is only one year away, which creates a good time span for us, but such t...